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Undiagnosed
Chills/Skin Sensitivity
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I can't answer any specific questions but what sprung to mind when reading your post is if you've ever done any body work therapy e.g...
Today at 6:43 PM
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Hello I'm happy I found this group. Since my 20s (I'm 55 now) I have times where I have a super sensitivity to cold. I've broken down...
Today at 6:42 PM
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Getting stuck in sexual routines because that's the only safe thing to do
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Thank you for sharing... It is helpful... that's great that you've done such good work together and without outside help. Sounds very...
Today at 6:02 PM
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I relate to this a lot. I used to dissociate a lot during sex and it took me a while to even just be present in the moment. A big help...
Today at 5:51 PM
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You’re not creating a drama. You’re exploring the complex dynamics that these therapeutic relationships throw up. I can understand why...
Today at 4:48 AM
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Questioning T's experience
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Thank you Movingforward10, I really appreciate your response and it's not lost on me that everyone here has their own things to deal...
Today at 4:48 AM
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beaneeboo
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Questioning T's experience
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I do get that olivejewel and I would never expect him to hold a spot for more than appropriate. I'm sorry I'm creating a drama. I've...
Yesterday at 3:43 PM
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I would feel exactly the same way. But maybe break it down to two things: 1) responding to his email 2) your feelings about his email...
Yesterday at 3:06 PM
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beaneeboo
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Questioning T's experience
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Thanks for the speedy reply I really appreciate it. It's really useful breaking it down as you have. 1) Responding, I was building up...
Yesterday at 3:06 PM
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beaneeboo
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Questioning T's experience
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Ugh sorry to be posting again. Having another reaction. T just emailed (it's Sunday night here), saying I need to say whether I'm...
Yesterday at 1:08 PM
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CSA (child sexual abuse) and COCSA (child on child sexual abuse) possibly. I have no idea what to do with these memories/this information.
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It’s a long journey and there are many roads. You realize at least that you need to get this out . I’d say that’s exactly the right...
Yesterday at 12:24 PM
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Childhood
CSA (child sexual abuse) and COCSA (child on child sexual abuse) possibly. I have no idea what to do with these memories/this information.
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This is a bit late but I really wanted to thank you! Your words have helped me a lot. They’ve really helped me so much. I definitely...
Yesterday at 9:48 AM
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CSA (child sexual abuse) and COCSA (child on child sexual abuse) possibly. I have no idea what to do with these memories/this information.
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Life doesn't need to be this difficult. Have you considered finding yourself a therapist? One of the things that can be really...
Yesterday at 9:47 AM
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Childhood
CSA (child sexual abuse) and COCSA (child on child sexual abuse) possibly. I have no idea what to do with these memories/this information.
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A normal part of child development is the egocentric stage, where children think (in overly simplified terms) that they cause what is...
Yesterday at 9:47 AM
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where_am_i's post
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Childhood
CSA (child sexual abuse) and COCSA (child on child sexual abuse) possibly. I have no idea what to do with these memories/this information.
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i can’t live with this by myself any longer. i need it out. i don’t really remember much and admittedly I don’t have the best memory...
Yesterday at 9:47 AM
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beaneeboo
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Childhood
CSA (child sexual abuse) and COCSA (child on child sexual abuse) possibly. I have no idea what to do with these memories/this information.
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Where_am_i... you are not alone... I (and I'm sure others here who've talked about their cocsa experiences) can relate to alot of what...
Yesterday at 9:47 AM
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beaneeboo
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Childhood
Child on child sexual abuse (COCSA)
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I think that's a common feeling to have - not unusual. And part of what maybe makes this difficult for you is that there was a dynamic...
Yesterday at 2:49 AM
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beaneeboo
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Childhood
Is this COCSA??
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Bellaellawhatever... oh how I relate to so many things you've said in your post... I totally get where you're coming from. It sounds...
Yesterday at 2:42 AM
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Okay. I get it. When will we realize someone who is disabled can be abused by another disabled person?
Yesterday at 2:21 AM
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beaneeboo
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Childhood
Child on child sexual abuse (COCSA)
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I hear you. i do think someone who is disabled can be abused by another disabled person. Really there are no limits (sadly) to who can...
Yesterday at 2:20 AM
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Upset. Brought a part into therapy and backfired. Not sure how to move forward?
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In what way did this actually backfire? - other than your emotional response to having been vulnerable in a way you did not intend...
Yesterday at 2:02 AM
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I think they are protective because the aim is to prevent you from getting hurt/punished. If you don’t eat then something better will...
Yesterday at 1:49 AM
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beaneeboo
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Upset. Brought a part into therapy and backfired. Not sure how to move forward?
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Love the quote 🙂 thanks Yes you're 100% correct. I'm not ready to deal with it yet. But I have accepted over this week that I could...
Yesterday at 1:45 AM
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It didn't backfire, you just learned you are not ready to deal with it yet. Like Edison said while working on the light bulb, I...
Yesterday at 1:41 AM
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Sure does, but less uncomfortable then leaving the session and wondering about all the things you couldn’t ask. For me that list is a...
Saturday at 4:54 PM
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beaneeboo
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Yes it does! But feeling strange and awkward in session is part and parcel for the work! It’s the ability to stay present with...
Saturday at 4:50 PM
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beaneeboo
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You put things so well. This is (yet another) revelation to me. I know it sounds stupid but thinking of it in this way makes it more...
Saturday at 4:49 PM
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