Birdhouseinmysoul

True. Gives me something to ponder x

Yeah I get the not having plans things but that isn't really on this dimension I was talking. Not making plans is more about not leaving...

His therapist has told him to stop people pleasing and to concentrate on just himself. (that I do know) he has to be totally selfish...

Aye... I guess there is a reason why we're sufferers 😅 . It's hard sometimes not to recommend to run to the mountains. But if he's doing...

I know what you're feeling, I've been on both sides of this rollercoaster. All I can tell you is that ultimately it is a matter of how...

Thank you.. I'm trying, really I am. Its a double edged sword with him as he also is a veteran too.. He has a massive trigger date in...

That’s so kind of you to read my post. I’m so sorry you are going through this and you are hurting. We are all here for you even though...

Hi , I’m so sorry for what you are going through. I really really get it . I was so lost and broken when a very similar thing happened...

Thats brought a big lump to my throat.. It's validation for me that it's OK to feel shit about it. I've now read so much, I understand...

Just hang in there, it's all you can do. I've been on the rollercoaster for three years, and he comes and goes when life (and being in a...

Thankyou for responding. I've just read your suggested post.... My partner hasn't (yet) abandoned me, he's just quiet.. I'm giving him...

On the one hand? I’m totally with you. On the other hand? What’s the worst that could happen… 1. YOU are my actual, full stop, soul...

Hiya @Birdhouseinmysoul, looking after someone and trying to keep a relationship afloat can be very draining. It's hard I know and from...

@Survivor3 .. Thanks.. I'm trying to keep busy and do nice things but it's really not doing any good. I wake up with a hurt heart and...

My heart physically hurts, just needed to reach out to people that understands.... Partner is cptsd sufferer. Always hidden it, best...

It’s a learning curve. None of us know what we are doing when we get into these relationships.

Thanks. That's what I think too.. I really appreciate that confirmation tho..i was worried I was reading things wrong, but you and this...

Thanks so much for taking the time to reply.. Genuinely dont know. I know his therapist said he needs space from triggers. As far as...

Hello. I'm not sure if I'm posting in the correct area- apologies if I'm not. I came across this site as Ive been searching for...