brat17

That’s exactly what I mean. As someone who processes out loud? That the simple act of bouncing ideas off of someone else causes a...

I can't say the bulk of it better than @arfie did. It is a label, not an identity, so as long as you're seeing it like that yourself...

Depends on what country you’re in, IME. In the USA? If you’re under the age of 32-40 it cuts you off from any form of employment...

i've seen it happen where someone receive a diagnosis and that dx becomes their identity. i'm a cancer victim. i'm an asthma victim. i'm...

Movingforward10-you are exactly right. A part of me does want things to be at least slightly different. When I originally posted, it was...

SA-nix- Not using condoms or PrEP.

white raven- I understand when you say you have cats in your life and couldn't deal with another human. That is maybe partly where I am...

Many good points here. Friday, right on target about other aspects of life. He is a computer guy. The program and way he operates is...

I don't know. It didn't work for me. My ex was horrible in bed. He preferred to masturbate to porn. He also couldn't keep a job and...

I think in order to BE good at sex, a person has to… not necessarily be I good at intimacy… but be good at the components that create...

Sex therapy? As a couple? Premature ejaculatuon is a 'thing' (please take what I say with all the caution as I'm a lesbian so what the...

I have never married, and I have only had one serious (but occasional) partner. I'm not happy, but it has nothing to do with not having...

Oh ya, and now at 64 yrs old, I would like a divorce. I can pay for it now, which I couldn't for all those years. Does anyone think that...

My husband is bad at sex. I know it sounds judgmental, after all, who the hell am I. When we me, I had been the victim of a marital...

enough, I dont think you derailed it, I think what you said is what most of us think but hadn't said. I do think a career can be a form...

@brat17 One of the things that modern society has taken from us is the awareness of other peoples struggles. I know more about people I...

it strikes me that all of my life has been in some kind of confinement, and most of it by choice. Do I want to be in my truck and headed...

enough, I think we have all had to make a choice and pick the lesser of 2 evils, I know I have felt that at times. No pitiful you, its...

I sure understand living in a situation, choosing it, against my good sense because it was viewed as not as bad as alternatives, that...

I’m finding this very interesting. For my own part I came out of quite a bad depressive episode and realised I was “trapped”. As in I...