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Thank you. I think this is a good community to learn from PTSD. You are right that perhaps I should not ask so much if anyway I still...

You need to do what you want to do. It's your life. We're strangers on an internet site giving relationship advice! So, you know, take...

Hi! these boundaries have been enforced for many weeks and they have been respected without any problem. This week she is going to...

I don't think she was trying to make me jealous, she was crying a lot during our call afraid that I was going to leave her. This is...

Thank you, I know how to set some boundaries. I mean, her life has not been easy, and I'm meeting her yes or yes. If I don't, I...

Ok, she wanted to speak on Skype some minutes ago as she was feeling bad. And so, we did. She tells me that her ex husband would...

That is true, I have not met her in person yet. I don't know if she is playing games. So far what she has told me, has come up...

I mean, he is not physically intimidating and he does not look like uncivilised person by his looks and profession. Sure of course. I'm...

Thank you. So you just think is a bad idea to visit her? Lol it was crazy advice I had been given. Uhm, so you just think it is a bad...

Good evening, it has been quite a while since I posted here. Ever since, we have got closer and I definitely think on visiting this...

Like that I value her further and feel the need to go quicker to her? I understand. Today we spent a good time talking and...

Because she is saying these things to get a rise out of you… she wants you to be jealous.

Thanks for more amazing advice. Well, I think this morning there was a bit of an issue. I mean, I general enter to that webpage of...

Boundaries control your behavior, not hers. They’re your limits, and you need to enforce them when they’re broken. So *you* decide if...

I mean, I told her that if she wanted to be free, then she could openly be so, since we haven't met in person but she keeps insisting...

Hello, I told her that boundaries probably were better to not exist since we have not met in person. And that she should strive for...

You describe the relationship As a ‘quasi relationship’. What boundaries or terms have been discussed and set? Are you both viewing...

Interesting. I mean, I see no problem that she sees her ex husband. They were together for seven years and are both foreigners in...

Why would she punish me? :O

I don’t think the issue is cheating as much as she uses other men to punish and manipulate you. If you don’t do what she wants she goes...

Good evening from my country! From what I said last time, do you think she really cheated? right I know, it is very difficult to...

Just re-read what @Sweetpea76 said, for “my” response. x10. Or as often as needed. Seriously. No way to say it better. IMO? Go to...

I agree in all points. But she was not blaming me for all. From one of our first conversations she told me that she CPTSD, and...

You are not making her sicker. You are not in charge of managing her mental health by what you do or do not do. That is not OK. She...

It definitely sounds better on paper than done. I mean, it is not really like she molded herself as how I wanted her to be. When I...

Thank you. What I try to mean, is that time she was indeed very enthusiastic that I would go there, and then in a sudden evening instead...

Good morning from my country, I'm a 32 y.o. man from a Latin American country. Last March I met online a girl (28 y.o) from an...