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Been there done that too @Skywatcher. The sexual stuff is always hard. Mostly because of shame created by school, church, and society...

So you’re NOT going because you like her directness/feel like you’re a good fit personality-wise & have a connection you think will be...

I know this feeling well. I got over it with practice. She was patient with me because I would yell at her, not loud but like a...

What can you do on your own? It took me roughly 5 years to get my head unf*cked my first go-round with PTSD (no therapy, also didn’t...

(Sorry…I wrote a reply to this and then realized it was May, 2021. 🤦🏼‍♀️) @toolrocks242352 - I am so sorry you are going through this...

Looks like the OP is not reading anymore, but I still want to respond to a couple of things. I am very sorry this happened. I had...

I understand. These are very hard feelings to process. Betrayal is what I think these feelings are. The therapy relationship is so...

I don’t know what scenario is likely. But I just want to say I’m sorry this happened and you absolutely should be able to trust your...

Wow. Ok. I did abide by "professional boundaries" until I was abandoned without any kind of explanation from her that I rightfully...

Any number of things could have happened. I can empathize with feeling abandoned, but try and right-size that reaction - you weren't...

if i believed there was a trauma-free way to recover from deep trauma, i might vote for dumping the current therapist as casually as you...

I'd say "don't give up". I think that your therapist acted in your best interests in calling her supervisor because she was concerned...

I have had amazing, healthy-interaction dreams about my T, extremely erotic dreams involving T, and outright violent abusive dreams...

Totally. She will not, at all, be upset with you that you dreamt that about her. The dream isn't about her abusing you, but your...