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EveHarrington
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EveHarrington

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Cancelling plans is ok. Disappearing for a bit is ok. Resurfacing in a foreign country w/a new name 10 yrs later is ok. Its called self care Jun 10, 2018

    1. somerandomguy
      somerandomguy
      I like you, Eve. You always say exactly what you mean. I don't always agree with you, but I really respect your ability to cut through all the bullshit.
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    2. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      Cancelling plans is ok. Disappearing for a bit is ok. Resurfacing in a foreign country w/a new name 10 yrs later is ok. Its called self care
      1. Happyplace76
        Jun 10, 2018
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      2. somerandomguy
        somerandomguy
        Hahahaha!
        Jun 10, 2018
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    3. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      I’m just a f*cked up girl, trying to find my way in a f*cked up world.
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    4. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      “Nice tells you what you want to hear, but kind is honest”
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    5. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      one step, two step, one step, two step, one step, two step, one step, two step, one step, two step, one step, two step, one step, two step
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    6. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      Went out on a limb and disclosed my ptsd struggles to someone new. Response? “Your disorder is narcissistic.” #VulnerabilityFail. Moving on!
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      3. Faustino
        Faustino
        We can get through this together, Eve. So many people on this forum who care. We can all pass through to the sunshine...sometimes seems trickier than other times, admittedly. Best wishes
        Apr 14, 2018
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      4. hodge
        hodge
        That person's comment is so off the map. It is so way beyond the pale of anything I've ever heard of before. Yes, move on. Don't question your reaction. Take your time. And maybe wait longer before disclosing to someone new next time. You don't deserve to hear that kind of crap. That's what it is -- total crap. Hugs.
        Apr 14, 2018
      5. EveHarrington
        EveHarrington
        Thanks for your support. In true Eve fashion I am now second guessing myself and thinking I just misunderstood or I am getting rid of people needlessly, that I shouldn’t have taken offense to his comments. But, his words were harsh, I didn’t need his pity.
        Apr 14, 2018
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    7. CdnCopper
      CdnCopper
      WRAP: Did some more reading on it. Don't really think it would beneficial or work for me at this point.
      1. EveHarrington
        EveHarrington
        How did you come to that conclusion?
        Apr 13, 2018
      2. CdnCopper
        CdnCopper
        There were some aspects that wouldn't work...for the moment anyway. For example my external support system would be limited at the moment to my dog and cat. Kind of sad but I am a loner. Having said that there are prob some other things from the program that I could put into everyday use the that would help.
        Apr 13, 2018
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    8. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      Thoughts are bad today
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      2. bellbird
        bellbird
        sending positive thoughts
        Apr 11, 2018
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    9. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      <numb> (and not fighting it. I need a rest; my system is exhausted.)
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    10. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      ...dealing with repetitive thoughts today. Trying to distract myself!
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      3. EveHarrington
        EveHarrington
        Certain songs help... Today I’m doing household chores so hopefully that will keep me distracted. The thoughts are back today, plus I’m drowsy from meds.
        Apr 3, 2018
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      4. Boudicca1969
        Boudicca1969
        Yeah I often throw meself into the hoovering cleaning and washing to take my mind off things and I usually have the radio turned up loud while I'm doing it too helps to lift my mood ya know? Doesn't always help but its worth a try mate :) xx
        Apr 3, 2018
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      5. Boudicca1969
        Boudicca1969
        My night time meds knock me out too Eve bloody good job too lol :) at least last night I was spared from nightmares and disturbing dreams but it's horrible to be woken by them and then trying to get back to sleep afterwards is a pain in the butt too. And sometimes when I go back to sleep my dreams are even weirder than the 1s that woke me up in the 1st place grrrr lol xx
        Apr 3, 2018
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    11. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      ...learning to accept and appreciate the process...
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      2. Boudicca1969
        Boudicca1969
        Good for you Eve :) it sure ain't bloody easy is it mate that acceptance thing? I've had to work on that a lot just lately myself. Appreciating the process is just as hard. I used to be very resentful of having to work so hard to overcome this illness. Now I just try to go with the flow and my resentment to Him Upstairs lol :) bless ya xx
        Apr 1, 2018
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      3. Boudicca1969
        Boudicca1969
        Sorry give my resentment to Him Upstairs. Missed the 'give' word out lol :) getting tired mate almost 2am here in the UK need my kip catch ya later xx
        Apr 1, 2018
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      4. EveHarrington
        EveHarrington
        Today it hit me that those who get out of jail must go through something similar. Thinking “IM FREEEEEE!” but there’s still a TON of work to be done to rebuild their lives, battles they must win, prejudices they will encounter. Blaaaaaaaaaaah!
        Apr 1, 2018
    12. EveHarrington
      EveHarrington
      ...how do I be ok with being ok? And who can possibly understand this unless instability has been a norm?
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