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day 3 of the standoff, co-workers vs new water dish/bathtub: Co-workers continue to eye the new addition to their office with...

My coworker peed in front of my bedroom door at 1am. Workplace bullying on steroids. The HR department are all getting fired.

The work place shenanigans have been escalating lately. Seemingly out of the blue today, my smallest co-worker awkwardly sat on my...

Ugh the “true authentic self” like is such BS. Then again, in a world full of liars, it’s understandable why so many people say it. I’m...

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I am so sorry that you’ve had to deal with something so traumatic. I hope that your able...

Feeling overwhelmed and a bit numb today.

I can understand that. My trauma goes back to my early childhood. Some of my earliest memories are from trauma. I'm in my 40s and have...

I've been in therapy since I was 12, and I'm 32 now. I've done a lot of work on my traumas, and I know that I've made a lot of progress...

If you're not happy single, you won't be happy married. Happiness comes from cats, not relationships.

Some people simply cannot be alone. They exit one relationship and immediately enter another. I have known a few people like this...

ketamine. Lol.

Still...cats. Although there may be short "good" times between the bad, I've learned--after 50 years--that it really does not get...

Tomorrow is the reason I keep going. There are lyrics to a song "you can't get to a better day unless you make it through the night."...

Long story short, with my therapist's help, I've realized he's very likely a sociopath which makes it that much more important that I go...

Grief for what was… and also grief for what could have been.

Thank you again. I am feeling better. I tend to beat myself up over this stuff sometimes. Instead, I need to be more gentle with myself...

TBH? How would any of us know we ARE triggered, &/or over the line… if we don’t hit crazy, at least once, first? Me, I’m extra slow… I...

Thank you! To be honest, I already had done a few things that made me look like the crazy ex. I'm not proud but I do understand what...

Exactly.

Thank you! So if I understand correctly, my brain is making connections that aren't really there because of the old unprocessed trauma...

Good on. This is a big deal. If he’d left you for a billionaire heiress, or to join a commune in Fiji, or taken vows in the...

I posted before in other threads that my fiancé left me out of the blue about six months ago basically telling me that he's been unhappy...