Livinginhope

I hate the “what-if” game… never, ever let yourself go there. Damn, I’m glad we weren’t together before Iraq, because then I’d *know*...

I'm kind of on the fence with this one. I've seen a rare few succeed, usually there's a lot of humility and effort involved, but more...

Thanks for your reply Freida, I appreciate the perspective a lot. I think I've done all I can now, and I will just try to heal and...

Feeling pretty low at the moment it's been a month since I last talked to my partner with trauma. We both said I love you to each other...

I don't have any amazing words of wisdom. Just know that you aren't alone. I came to this forum tonight a broken woman. I want to post a...

It sucks to be the target just because you are the “safe person.”

So much of what u write resonates so much with me. He's so cruel when he's in an episode. And I'm his enemy. His paranoia is off the...

The unfortunate reality is that all competent adults with mental illness are responsible to conduct themselves. For me, I was an...

That’s usually a tip off to how he’s feeling… he generally isn’t a raging asshole. The worse he feels, the bigger the asshole.

It can be at times. I’ve mostly gotten to the point where I don’t take it personally. However I still have my moments where he wears me...