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Muttly
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Muttly
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Therapist hasn’t responded to last few texts
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My idea would be to start a thread in the Cognitive Distortions section titled “I am a burden to my T” and face that thought distortion...
Today at 3:41 PM
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Mother of my children wished me a Happy Father's Day ?
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For me, it's the dad who does this shit to me. And maybe the brother, but I get muddled thinking about that. And what you said about...
Monday at 12:54 PM
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Mother of my children wished me a Happy Father's Day ?
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My narcissist ex texts me on birthdays and Mother’s Day and whatever. I usually just give a curt “thank you”. Narcissists want that...
Monday at 12:45 PM
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Mother of my children wished me a Happy Father's Day ?
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I think it is brilliant, personally. A great way to add lightness to what appears to be an overbearing situation. If there were no...
Monday at 12:45 PM
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Mother of my children wished me a Happy Father's Day ?
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Delete the text is my advice. I'm not sure I fully understand though.
Monday at 12:44 PM
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Mental health professional asked weird question when asking about my anxiety
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Hard to know, without having all the context, but I'd have found it slightly odd. But I completely agree with Movingforward. Since she...
Jun 13, 2022
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Forgiveness
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Thank you all, your replies have been helpful. I felt relief at the idea I don't have to forgive. I wonder why I feel I have to...
Jun 13, 2022
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I remember seeing an episode of Oprah on child sex abuse where they were saying it's necessary to forgive your abuser, and I kind of...
Jun 13, 2022
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This! It’s so dang hard to forgive ourselves, might as well focus on that and let the rest fall where it may.
Jun 13, 2022
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To me, this is much more important. Fwiw, none of my Ts have suggested forgiving my abusers is necessary or recommended it. Some of...
Jun 13, 2022
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I wasn’t raised Christian, although I spent several years in Christian countries, the majority of my childhood was in the East. So the...
Jun 13, 2022
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to my heavily psychotheraputed senses, forgiveness is not about the other person. it is about healing the damage done. whether the...
Jun 13, 2022
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I see things in two ways. Forgiving someone when they couldn't help themselves. When they didn't intend to cause the harm they did. Is...
Jun 13, 2022
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No, I don't feel forgiveness is part of recovery. If that were so, in my case, I would not be as far along as I am. I feel there are...
Jun 13, 2022
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No, and I don’t know how to explain but I want to try. For me, the best way I understand it is that my old self had an idea of...
Jun 13, 2022
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I know it's come up before, but it's been a while since a thread has been made on this subject. My T and I were talking about...
Jun 12, 2022
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What are you doing (or not doing) for Father's Day?
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I will celebrate the fact that he is dead and gone for a few years now. Can't muster the hypocrisy that involves him. I rarely even...
Jun 9, 2022
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Back Surgery and needing help
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Of course. Sigh. So yeah, I know. I should extend the same caring to me. umm.. ok. If my needs impinge upon other people, I'm too...
Jun 9, 2022
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What a crappy day
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Dealing with an alcoholic is hard. It's so easy to get hurt and entangled. I think on some level you probably know, it's not as straight...
Jun 9, 2022
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Lost and Hopeless
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I filed bankruptcy 3 years ago. Like SRG said, you get good at watching your finances like a hawk. You adjust. But the burden of now...
Jun 6, 2022
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So I never filed for bankruptcy, but I got into some shit with my credit cards to the point that I couldn't use one for 7 years. You get...
Jun 6, 2022
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Childhood
Birthday parties
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Ugh. Hate birthdays. Sorry you are struggling. Say more when you can.
Jun 5, 2022
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Back Surgery and needing help
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Thank you all for your replies. My brain is being dumb. I feel like I can't ask for pain meds. That I will be too needy or come across...
Jun 5, 2022
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Plan for what you can to mitigate the pain. Like Friday said, strait up codeine is a choice. I did that right through enucleation...
Jun 5, 2022
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2 med notes 1 - (You probably already know this, but it’s worth mentioning, in case you’re like me and totally forget this kind of...
Jun 5, 2022
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Back Surgery and needing help
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It's not the wrong attitude either. It's just the feelings you're having to deal with right now. If I understand correctly, you grew up...
Jun 5, 2022
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Letting Go
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Yeah I was on a medicine for nerve pain that was an anti depressant. I told my Dr I miss it, but I was off of it due to eventually...
Jun 3, 2022
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Goal for the day ~ Just one thing
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Sorry about your back, Friday Goat for today- Don't push too hard.
Jun 2, 2022
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Goal for the day ~ Just one thing
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I achieved my goal for the day. Went to psychiatrist appointment. Plus - I went to the cafe for lunch and did some shopping so that's...
Jun 2, 2022
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Letting Go
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Good job dealing with the police officer. You did it. And were ok. And you are safe now. I hope you have a good session with your T.
Jun 2, 2022
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Ah I just remembered, I was on the side of the road last night texting. A trooper pulled up behind me with lights. I had a quick "oh...
Jun 2, 2022
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Letting Go
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This is an amazing connection and of course might send enough adrenalin into your system to keep you up all night! Also, a subtle...
Jun 2, 2022
Muttly
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Back Surgery and needing help
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Well, this morning I decided to make a list of things I need to do prior to surgery and work up a schedule and stuff. (I am a planner)...
Jun 1, 2022
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See - you got it all sorted out @Muttly !! Just gotta break it down and take it on one piece at a time....
Jun 1, 2022
Muttly
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Coming out 22 years ago.
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Congratulations. It's such a scary thing to do. And it's such a relief to be able to be your true self. I also have zero regrets
Jun 1, 2022
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Coming out 22 years ago.
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I knew that I was in the closet about it could not hold onto this secret anymore.They know I am married to a great partner,Bryan that...
Jun 1, 2022
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