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navigating not knowing if i am traumatized but having Symptoms that scare me
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Have you been tested for autism? It’s very often missed in girls. The diagnostic criteria is literally created around male children. If...
Monday at 2:23 AM
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Just going to throw this in there that lots of attachment based difficulties can cause the issues you describe and that kind of somatic...
Sunday at 12:43 PM
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Yeah That makes sense. I tended to dissociate too but I don't really anymore. That conflict is hard when different parts pull you in...
Saturday at 2:37 PM
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This makes sense to me. All the things you mention are positive things. Is it difficult to allow yourself to settle and feel safe...
Saturday at 2:35 PM
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Yes, this is me too. For me I think it is preverbal issues. For others I think it is because there ARE no words to describe it. I...
Saturday at 7:21 AM
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Thank you for all the helpful responses. Yes so that all makes sense. It is the fact that at the moment I can say very small things or...
Saturday at 4:03 AM
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I also haven't done EDMR, but totally yes: not having words come out. T equates that to not having a voice as a child, and fear of...
Saturday at 3:58 AM
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Sex was not a part of my trauma so yes we couch things in understandable terms but I feel no need to be vulgar when we do talk about...
Saturday at 3:57 AM
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Sometimes I found myself describing some things with my hands when the words wouldn’t come out. I also tend to dissociate so we had to...
Saturday at 3:57 AM
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For sure. And the difference between fully processed trauma & unprocessed trauma? - I can talk any and all aspects of rape & sexual...
Saturday at 3:57 AM
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Yes, 100%. For me, the verbalization and narrative of my trauma story is extremely important. I need someone to know my truths and my...
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I have never done EMDR but I did have to tell my T gross things that my dad did to me. And it felt like a child was saying it. It took...
Saturday at 3:57 AM
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Ok so I'm having emdr and I have a memory and I want to say - I can feel his hands on me - or I can feel the feeling of his *horrible...
Friday at 11:06 AM
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