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Sweetpea76's latest activity
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I don't know what to do with my wife's CSA
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It sounds like maybe she needs a therapist if she isn’t seeing one, because using you as one isn’t fair. Supporters aren’t equipped to...
Yesterday at 11:15 PM
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My ex with CPTSD blamed me for everything, and I am left feeling like I am nothing.
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If my exhusband had invited his mother to our home, or taken my son to see her / exposed him (our son) to her in any way, I would have...
Wednesday at 4:34 PM
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Shutting Me Out & Uncertainty
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... and it doesn’t make you a bad person if you are NOT OK with it. Just because he has PTSD doesn’t make ghosting/ignoring hurt any...
Feb 22, 2021
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Shutting Me Out & Uncertainty
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Honestly, you just get used to it. Realizing it has nothing to do with you personally helps.
Feb 21, 2021
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Girlfriend with CPTSD Hospitalized for Mental Breakdown, Don't Know What to Do (Long Read)
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You’re not going to be able to do the “right” thing here. There is no right thing to say or do. She isn’t well right now. You cannot...
Feb 20, 2021
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My ex with CPTSD blamed me for everything, and I am left feeling like I am nothing.
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I would argue that a 28 year old woman who lets her parents control her life is not mature. That, and blaming everything and everyone...
Feb 18, 2021
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Girlfriend pushed me away...
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Actions speak louder than words. I know it’s easy to cling to happy/loving words... but don’t let them cloud your judgement. Is...
Feb 18, 2021
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Need Advice - I triggered my girlfriend (PTSD) she broke up with me. Blocked me out of her life.
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Letting go is the stronger thing to do. Chasing after people isn’t romantic or proof of some kind of love. It’s unhealthy...
Feb 14, 2021
Sweetpea76
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PTSD relationship
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You’re going to have to change your mindset about helping with her treatment. You cannot help her with this. You cannot make her go to...
Feb 13, 2021
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Need support-spouse of PTSD sufferer
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Nothing screws with your own sanity like your partner’s mental health crises. Just because he is in this state it doesn’t mean the...
Feb 11, 2021
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Need support-spouse of PTSD sufferer
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@BrokenHeat I’m a supporter... I know how confusing it all is. Best advice I can give you is to calm down. Take a step back and breathe...
Feb 11, 2021
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Wondering if any one has had to do this? Joining partner's therapy.
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I’ve never had that experience with my partner’s therapist, but that actually seems like it would be very helpful. Most of the time it...
Jan 26, 2021
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Rant and complain thread open to all supporters
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That has to suck... does being sick set him off worse?
Jan 18, 2021
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My ex with CPTSD blamed me for everything, and I am left feeling like I am nothing.
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I know looking for answers is comforting... but its a common supporter trap. “He only slept with her because his PTSD made him feel self...
Jan 17, 2021
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My ex with CPTSD blamed me for everything, and I am left feeling like I am nothing.
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Honestly, as bad as it hurts right now, you dodged a bullet. It doesn’t matter why she blames you... she does. You can’t make logical...
Jan 17, 2021
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PTSD & ASD -- Coping with Cancer
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The hardest part about being a supporter is being completely powerless to help or fix. Sometimes it feels like you literally have to sit...
Jan 15, 2021
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Feeling like I failed my GF
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You didn’t sign up to be unhappy for the rest of your life when you began dating her. Things didn’t work out, and it’s not doing either...
Jan 15, 2021
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Dating combat vet who ghosted
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Wow. This is a blast from the past. This is so reminiscent of my philosophy and experience. This is exactly how I behaved when my...
Jan 14, 2021
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PTSD Sufferer and Six Months of Space
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Ditto with @LuckiLee Six months of space isn’t a relationship. It doesn’t make you a good person to wait, and a bad person if you...
Jan 5, 2021
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I can’t stop being angry at him
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Caregiver burnout and compassion fatigue are very very real. It sucks out loud doing the heavy lifting with very little to no...
Jan 1, 2021
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Need some advice, on the fence and lost
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Does she have PTSD?
Dec 31, 2020
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Gotta love that German engineering!!! 💞 I don’t know the anthem...However, as all the best composers are German? If we get Biontech it...
Dec 27, 2020
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At last, 2020 is almost done!
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So, finally, we are nearing the end of this super challenging year 👏🤷♀️ I want to say a huge THANK YOU to those here who have helped...
Dec 23, 2020
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Rant and complain thread open to all supporters
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We’re personally doing fine financially, but many are not. I’ve been back to work for awhile and vet is on a pension so our income is...
Dec 23, 2020
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Needing help understanding
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He said “My perception of your actions and my feelings about it are as if I was cheated on. It doesn’t matter if I was actually cheated...
Dec 20, 2020
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Needing help understanding
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Here’s the deal... you can’t help him. Supporters cannot help or fix. This is a mental illness, and he has to get treatment and work on...
Dec 20, 2020
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Need Advice - I triggered my girlfriend (PTSD) she broke up with me. Blocked me out of her life.
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Ok... as a supporter, you need to change your mindset, or any relationship you will have with her will be codependent and toxic. You...
Dec 16, 2020
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What do I do after an argument?
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He feels better when he doesn’t talk to his family... but is he stopping the kids from seeing them? If not, I’d leave things be. Family...
Dec 9, 2020
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How is everybody doing?
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Making the best of things! Almost done shopping and wrapping... my goal is to finish by the time my holiday break from work comes so I...
Dec 8, 2020
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Rant and complain thread open to all supporters
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We’re not in lockdown at all, and the positivity rate in my state is over 15%. Welcome to America. If we all die, oh well. I think that...
Dec 7, 2020
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Rant and complain thread open to all supporters
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We have the vaccine approved, but nobody has started receiving any yet. I believe medical personnel and first responders get the first...
Dec 7, 2020
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Am I the issue??
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I know the easiest thing in the world is to feel guilty or responsible if you’re the target of lashing out behavior... for your own...
Dec 6, 2020
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Am I the issue??
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THIS. You are not responsible for the evils others have done. You are not responsible for anyone else’s memories, or the way that they...
Dec 6, 2020
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Am I the issue??
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First of all he doesn’t get to behave like an asshole just because he has PTSD. Second of all you’re not “triggering him” he is being...
Dec 6, 2020
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