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The_One
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Mommy and daddy issues!!
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I just never thought I’d be actually realizing this lol. I kinda didn’t wanna realize it about my mom since I still live at home and...
Jan 9, 2023
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Mommy and daddy issues!!
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Yeah I think it's common to have issues with both parents. I do. My mum is a narcissist and my dad emotionally absent and colluding with...
Jan 9, 2023
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Mommy and daddy issues!!
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So I’ve done some soul searching this past weekend because the topic of dating has become a topic in our family Now. I realized I have...
Jan 8, 2023
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Rock music is a trigger for me now???
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Maybe … I used to listen to various rock styles when I was going through these events. I guess that could be a sign of it triggering me...
Jan 8, 2023
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Advice on wording consent boundaries for dating
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I had two exes one of which I dated for 8 years and he was very manipulative, stonewalled a lot, communication was horrible, love bombed...
Jan 8, 2023
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Music in general is a new-ish trigger for me, especially unfamiliar music. It might be linked to an experience in surgery but I’ve never...
Jan 8, 2023
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What Has Helped You the Most with your Healing Process?
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Yes same. My meds make physiological existence bearable so that I can do the psychological work.
Jan 8, 2023
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Dom Violence
Is anyone here that's been kidnapped? Or has been a victim of domestic violence?
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I was kidnapped when I was 3 or 4 years old. I didn't know what was happening, but I did know it was wrong. At the airport I told the...
Jan 8, 2023
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Rock music is a trigger for me now???
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Trauma & Stressor Discussion
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I dont really understand this. Maybe because it’s me getting older and my tastes are changing but I’ve noticed that rock music really...
Jan 8, 2023
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Feeling like I will never have a healthy romantic partner...stories from the otherside?
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I am on the other side. It took me awhile but I am here. I didn't take for most of my 20s because I wanted to work on myself. I grew up...
Jan 8, 2023
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Secure attachment style possible to develop?
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Attachment styled aren't like zodiac signs, it's very fluid and it can vary from person to person. They are attachment styles and not...
Jan 8, 2023
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Been cheated on by every person i’ve been with, including my current. Is this feeling forever ?
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It’s been several years since I’ve read any of it (but as a student you’d have access to the peer review database! 😎)… but there is a...
Jan 8, 2023
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How Do I Trust Again
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Are we the same person like what??? Oh my god I could’ve written this.
Jan 7, 2023
The_One
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Advice on wording consent boundaries for dating
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Very interesting thread and I feel like we have the same dating history and like you I’ve just started dating again after 3 years (it’s...
Jan 7, 2023
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yes, it is endlessly amazing. since my own damaged brain tends to push to the opposite extreme to what i was conditioned to, boundaries...
Jan 7, 2023
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Racist parents and dating- boundaries and other stuff. I need advice
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Born and raised in the USA, parents and grandparents immigrated in 70s and then moved back and forth from here to India before...
Jan 7, 2023
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Journaling and therapy- does anyone else do this?
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I send an email to therapists once a week with anything zi want to say to them or things I want to discuss in the next session. Makes an...
Jan 7, 2023
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Journaling and therapy- does anyone else do this?
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I journal a lot, but I don't read to my therapist--I do sometimes email to him, though. I have a lot of trouble talking about stuff, but...
Jan 7, 2023
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EMDR- had SI for a while after. Stopped. I think I’m ready again? Thoughts???
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Yeah I think my knot is very complex and complicated so I’m stopping EMDR and just doing talk therapy for now
Jan 7, 2023
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Xanax and other benzos… question
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These have been really helpful for me. And everyone thanks for the replies. I haven’t used a half a Xanax in so long and I forget about...
Jan 7, 2023
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I think any of us aware of former addiction problems tend to be super careful with most substnces. My wife even has to remind me to...
Jan 7, 2023
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I’m a former problem drinker and insomniac. Benzos leave me nervous because the risk of dependency could feel entrapping or push back...
Jan 7, 2023
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👍 👍 👍 Yup got some for dentist, large family gatherings, and medical stuff. All very stressful events for me. Due to previous...
Jan 7, 2023
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My honest opinion on benzos is that they're great emergency drugs, but you shouldn't be on them long-term. Save your script for when...
Jan 7, 2023
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Will vary greatly from person to person. Taking it regularly for just a couple of weeks can create dependency in some people.
Jan 7, 2023
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I was prescribed Halcion for my dental work. It's a powerful medication that puts you in a twilight zone. Maybe you can speak to your...
Jan 7, 2023
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Typically you'd get addicted to benzos after between 3 months and a year of regular use. It depends on the people, the frequency and the...
Jan 7, 2023
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Journaling and therapy- does anyone else do this?
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So I’ve recently opened a Pandora’s box of issues surrounding dating and the trauma behind it for me (dating in my family has always...
Jan 7, 2023
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Raped in my dream by Richard Ramirez wtf
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Not sure but it sounds like you are feeling powerless and maybe not in control of your life?
Dec 31, 2022
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Raped in my dream by Richard Ramirez wtf
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I’ve never dreamt of being raped. I’ve dreamt of having sex with men willingly, having sex with my ex (ewwww) and kissing men. I’ve even...
Dec 29, 2022
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I Can never get a f*cking break my god!!!
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That’s what I hope it is in my case. I really don’t wanna deal with this now. I just feel super emotional that my dentist I trusted with...
Dec 8, 2022
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I Can never get a f*cking break my god!!!
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Ah yes, with you a hundred percent. No idea why these people make me feel two inches tall everytime I get in the chair. Even when doing...
Dec 8, 2022
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I Can never get a f*cking break my god!!!
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If it is an infection, I didn't know I had it for years. No pain either. And then root canal. And then another procedure. The infection...
Dec 8, 2022
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I Can never get a f*cking break my god!!!
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Well if it is infected , I have no idea. The dentist said it was an area to watch. It was on my scan 3 years ago but it was barely...
Dec 8, 2022
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I Can never get a f*cking break my god!!!
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I don’t think I have to go back to him. I’m having no symptoms and no pain on the tooth so at first my dentist said we can wait and...
Dec 8, 2022
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This resonates as I have just booked my further dental treatment after avoiding it for some time. I'm sorry they have found this. I...
Dec 8, 2022
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Mod Note: I've removed the trigger warning from your post. We don't use them here - you can read about why in the Community Constitution .
Dec 7, 2022
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I Can never get a f*cking break my god!!!
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Anxiety, Panic & Hypervigilance
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I am soooo f*cking tired of this, like I am so so so so done. I am 28 years old and I wasn’t blessed with good teeth or hygiene I guess...
Dec 7, 2022
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Death
I got past my fears and did something I wanted to do ever since my dad died
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My dad died when I was 14 from a major MI. It affected me deeply, I started getting anxiety. Idk if I had it before but his death reallt...
Nov 26, 2022
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i've never done emdr, so i am clueless on that score, but suicidal ideation has plagued me since my pre-adolescence in the 60's. my...
Nov 26, 2022
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