Thisgirlwashere

Anything by Karen Casey. I think that is her name. She has this description of each person having a garden and an analogy about going...

You sound like a very compassionate person. I wish you the best and I’m sorry you are hurting over this.

Thank you very much for sharing your story and your perspective. I'm sorry you've been through so much. Yeah, I do think it'd be...

My situation does not compare quite to yours as a child but part of it does to your moms so I wanted to share both. One thing my mom...

This thing about familiar territory is exactly what it feels like. As a kid I wasn’t really expected to fix things but my feelings were...

His behaviour is triggering you and you're falling into familiar territory of believing it's you that is wrong? I don't know your...

So, for the first time in my life after getting out of abusive situation…again I am taking time to figure myself out! I have been single...

I mean everyone is different so this means nothing in regards to her. I’ve told all of my partners things that happened to me so that...

*Your wife’s PTSD was triggered.* It’s subtle but it’s a first step in the mental shift that’s necessary for you.

I get it. Only you can decide when you’re actually done-done wanting to be with her. It’s a heartbreaker, for sure. Divorce sucks...

I’m new here and not trying to break any rules but this sounds so much like my situation I want to chime in. I’m the ptsd one but she...

I’m not sure how stable she is right now. She somehow made the leap to me wanting to be in control of everything, and that makes...

@throwaway13 do not feel guilty for bringing up the problems in your marriage in marriage counseling. That is a 100% logical and...

The absolute best one I have ever done is rolling on the floor. I picked it off a list because I was mad and it sounded like the dumbest...