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I think I triggered my wife’s PTSD
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I’m at the end of the rope. I had to let it out today. With her isolation and projecting fear/control/trust issues onto me I had to tell...
Saturday at 6:41 PM
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Definitely exhausting, and I’ve been helping out as much as I can when I’m not at work. And her mother is constantly helping. Maybe she...
Saturday at 12:19 PM
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Oh wow, 3 1/2 year old and 10 month twins? How much help does she have? Do you think it's possible her stress cup is overflowing with...
Saturday at 12:15 PM
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I think postpartum issues deal with bonding to the baby or separation anxiety. I really don’t see that right now. Just her isolating and...
Saturday at 2:42 AM
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Her reasoning is that she can’t trust me, for why…she has not given me a reason. And that I want to control everything. Which makes no...
Saturday at 1:59 AM
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Should I keep pressing her to talk more about it? This morning she acted like nothing happened and my head is spinning. She said...
Saturday at 1:17 AM
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This morning I gently let her know that whenever she was ready to talk about I brought up ptsd inside of marriage counseling I’ll be...
Friday at 11:12 AM
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I almost hate to tell you this but.... I kept it together for decades before ptsd knocked me on my ass. And it was brutal. The...
Friday at 12:45 AM
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Well she quit a well paying job at a public school district and is isolating and pushing me away from her. I’m trying to to hold it...
Friday at 12:31 AM
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Hearing you, @throwaway13.
Thursday at 11:21 PM
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This is another conversation I need to have with her. I’m doing my best to be empathetic by learning about ptsd and I wish I did it...
Thursday at 11:01 PM
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It’s really hard to say how this will all play out. Even knowing what a “typical” symptomatic period is like for your sufferer isn’t a...
Thursday at 10:59 PM
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And now today she is acting like nothing happened the other day. This is like living a real life Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde story.
Thursday at 7:18 PM
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This is the first triggered event I’m going through, I’d say been a little over a month now since she’s been symptomatic.
Thursday at 10:31 AM
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That’s what I’m scared of. How long does this last? I don’t think that she can see that she is symptomatic
Thursday at 2:27 AM
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As much as it sucks, sometimes all you can do is wait it out. Protect your kids, protect yourself, and wait it out.
Thursday at 2:24 AM
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Most definitely frustrated. Very pissed off. I told her she has absolutely no reason to not trust me. I’ve always been open and honest...
Thursday at 2:03 AM
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Yep. You can’t make a case when they’re in a spiral. There’s no logic, there is no defending yourself. You said what you needed to...
Thursday at 1:20 AM
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And it happened just like everyone here suggested it would. “I can’t trust you, you are trying to control me, you don’t love me!”
Wednesday at 4:55 PM
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I couldn’t think of any other way to say it. I’ve been telling her for over a week that I needed time to talk to her alone. She’s been...
Aug 9, 2022
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something to think about --- sufferer time sometimes runs differently than "normal" time, so it might be a bit before she responds while...
Aug 9, 2022
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No worries, it's how we learn. I appreciate the acknowledgement, thanks.
Aug 9, 2022
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Thanks for the warning, ignorance of that rule is no excuse to break it.
Aug 9, 2022
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Ok here’s an update. For the last few days I’ve been telling my wife that I need to have a conversation with her. She’s been avoiding it...
Aug 8, 2022
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I saw that in another thread, and I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. I can't believe it happened right after your first intimacy...
Jul 30, 2022
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May as well say what you need to say at this point.
Jul 29, 2022
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Nope. Just a moment of clarity because you stood up to her with facts. She had nowhere to go with that. It was about you and the kids...
Jul 29, 2022
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@Portlander all the hypervig is part of PTSD. That’s an actual symptom. I think what @MnM was saying is that in their experience...
Jul 29, 2022
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My next conversation with her is going to be about me bringing up the ptsd is marriage counseling. Marriage counseling is for both...
Jul 29, 2022
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Just wanted to give an update. This morning when I went over to my in-law’s to take the twins out for a walk I had a few moments alone...
Jul 29, 2022
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Yes, met with the attorney today. She said to not bother with the separation agreement if she already has a divorce lawyer. Anything...
Jul 28, 2022
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I was offering How do I try to get her to wake up? I saw the marriage therapist today and he suggested to ask her if she’s getting the...
Jul 28, 2022
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I had to remove myself from a conversation with her yesterday. She quit a well paying job with a school district to work for a...
Jul 28, 2022
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Just got finished with another session with the marriage counselor by myself. He did say that I need to speak to my wife about that the...
Jul 28, 2022
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Don't look for reasons... the reason is PTSD based on what you're writing here.
Jul 28, 2022
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That boundary was never discussed. I felt that the past trauma and ptsd was affecting our relationship. I still see the marriage...
Jul 27, 2022
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I came back @throwaway13 because I didn't feel I was clear. I didn't mean it's your fault, I meant feeling/ saying I'm sorry as a...
Jul 27, 2022
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Very helpful information. I do want to talk about the ptsd and apologize for not discussing with her before bringing it up in...
Jul 27, 2022
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I really don’t think she knows what’s going on just yet. And it feels like I’m walking on egg shells just to not upset her more...
Jul 26, 2022
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The marriage counselor that we saw twice had us speaking like this. One of the many reasons she refused to go back to counseling was...
Jul 26, 2022
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There is, yes. The simple basics is called the mirroring technique, or reflective technique, or paraphrasing, etc. Several names. You...
Jul 26, 2022
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Is there a right way to approach someone who’s been diagnosed with ptsd in the past to ask them if they’ve been triggered? I’m tying to...
Jul 26, 2022
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She told me she was diagnosed with PTSD when she was a young adult and suffered a trauma, she told me she was “attacked” and left it at...
Jul 25, 2022
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There’s no way to know how long a triggered or symptomatic state will last, especially if this is her first one. With my partner I’ve...
Jul 25, 2022
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I’m still hoping for reconciliation
Jul 25, 2022
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From your past experiences how long do these triggers last? I want to ask her about her ptsd being triggered but I already saw how that...
Jul 25, 2022
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I’m not sure how stable she is right now. She somehow made the leap to me wanting to be in control of everything, and that makes...
Jul 24, 2022
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I’m starting to become indifferent to her symptoms now. It’s been a little over a month and I’m emotionally drained. Since last night...
Jul 24, 2022
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I believe this is her first triggered event in our relationship. It’s extremely difficult for someone who doesn’t suffer from ptsd to...
Jul 23, 2022
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yep. That's what ptsd does. It takes away everything except for how I'll survive the next moment. All other thinking goes out the...
Jul 23, 2022
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