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Weemie
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Weemie
reacted to
Tinyflame's post
in the thread
Positive Things to Build On this Year
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Love
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I'm sorry I missed the edit, I meant to say I think the subjective experience of whatever we are going through, or just living in...
Today at 2:43 AM
Weemie
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Tinyflame's post
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Positive Things to Build On this Year
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Yes @Weemie , I think you are very wise. I believe I can relate to exactly what you mean. More as is said it is the journey, not the...
Today at 2:43 AM
Weemie
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Positive Things to Build On this Year
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There was a time, until as recently as this year, where this line from TOFK was the guidepost by which I lived my life. If I could just...
Yesterday at 9:25 PM
Weemie
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beaneeboo's post
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Upset. Brought a part into therapy and backfired. Not sure how to move forward?
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Love
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Love the quote 🙂 thanks Yes you're 100% correct. I'm not ready to deal with it yet. But I have accepted over this week that I could...
Yesterday at 2:39 AM
Weemie
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PerturbedLemon's post
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I am in hate with myself
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Love
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I sat down with my mum and we had a long talk. We came to the agreement that this is not okay. We expressed our feelings and I had the...
Saturday at 7:21 PM
Weemie
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Upset. Brought a part into therapy and backfired. Not sure how to move forward?
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In what way did this actually backfire? - other than your emotional response to having been vulnerable in a way you did not intend...
Saturday at 7:15 PM
Weemie
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Movingforward10's post
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I am in hate with myself
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Have you had therapy? we are (as I am learning!) in control of ourselves. I think the trick is have awareness , which you have. And...
Saturday at 4:43 PM
Weemie
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PerturbedLemon's post
in the thread
I am in hate with myself
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Love
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Here's what I read, "Shut up. Nobody wants to hear your pity party and you're lying." That's not AT ALL what was said. I was presented...
Saturday at 4:42 PM
Weemie
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anthony's post
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I am in hate with myself
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I have undone moderator actions. You have very little scope in which I won't put that back. Regardless how people respond, it is about...
Saturday at 4:42 PM
Weemie
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anthony's post
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I am in hate with myself
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Nobody can change you, except you. Anger seems to be prolific within your post. Start there: The Iceberg Of Emotions It doesn't happen...
Saturday at 4:42 PM
Weemie
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I am in hate with myself
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Inspiring words, and that is the crux of beginning to shed abuse and the cycle of violence. This stuff is hard. It will take a long...
Saturday at 4:24 PM
Weemie
reacted to
Roland's post
in the thread
PTSD, or normal emotional reaction
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Love
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Thank you for that summary, that's actually really helpful
Saturday at 4:08 PM
Weemie
reacted to
PerturbedLemon's post
in the thread
I am in hate with myself
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Love
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This once sentence gave hope. True hope. This ends today. I will change. My mom and I deserve better. I know that I love her. It's time...
Saturday at 2:50 PM
Weemie
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PTSD, or normal emotional reaction
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Interpreting is a rough one. I think it's within the realm of normalcy to have had an emotional reaction to this event. It also sounds...
Saturday at 12:22 PM
Weemie
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Am I to blame for my relationship ending?
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Knowing who to blame will not change that both of you engaged in patterns and cycles of behavior that are extremely well-ingrained as a...
Saturday at 12:19 PM
Weemie
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I am in hate with myself
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It depends. If the coworker went 10 years without breaking my fingers and expressed genuine remorse and desire for restoration and a...
Saturday at 11:44 AM
Weemie
reacted to
Sideways's post
in the thread
Current Weather
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Sad
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We’re in the middle of life-threatening at the other end of the spectrum. Pretty much over the heatwave.
Friday at 4:33 PM
Weemie
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Current Weather
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Hope you are prepped for the cold snap FJ!!! & @ any East Coasters in general: Anyone who lives in the East Coast and in some parts of...
Friday at 7:11 AM
Weemie
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Current Weather
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It is about to be -43 degrees Celsius here. So that'll be fun!
Friday at 7:09 AM
Weemie
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Something therapist said makes me think that she isn't believing what I wrote
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Keep in mind that the definition of trafficking is a lot broader than most people think. It does not require movement of persons to...
Friday at 6:43 AM
Weemie
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Do you ever feel like you shouldn’t have said anything?
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I'm sometimes grateful that I learned at an early age to never ever trust a police officer or official person. That these gangs of law...
Jan 27, 2023
Weemie
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Friday's post
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Venting about misguided son, need support
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Teenagers are brutal. Being one. Loving one.
Jan 27, 2023
Weemie
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Venting about misguided son, need support
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There's always the potential that he will mature beyond this. Sometimes the only way to create behavioral change is to experience the...
Jan 27, 2023
Weemie
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OliveJewel's post
in the thread
Childhood
Child on child sexual abuse - is blame necessary?
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I know it would be nice to get a black and white answer—seems so simple—someone tells you yes or no and then you can move on. My answer...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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Childhood
Child on child sexual abuse - is blame necessary?
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I think this question is ultimately a semantic one. Are children capable of having mens rea to the standard of an adult, and should they...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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OliveJewel's post
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Do you view your abuser(s) as evil or sick?
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Love
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This is what makes someone evil, when they make the choices willfully. I don’t think anyone is born evil. I think evil is a label...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
Freida's post
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Do you view your abuser(s) as evil or sick?
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A monster who made choices of his own free will. His decision to torture and kill were his and only his. He wasn't under any duress...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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OliveJewel's post
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Do you view your abuser(s) as evil or sick?
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I don’t think all mentally ill people harm others, but that those who do might have less agency than a person without mental illness who...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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Do you view your abuser(s) as evil or sick?
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Mostly, yes. I do think there is some value to labeling actions as moral or immoral since that is the basis of conducting one's self...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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OliveJewel's post
in the thread
Do you view your abuser(s) as evil or sick?
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Love
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Yeah this word is sticky, especially since it’s wrapped up in religious ideology and the dehumanizing quality of pathos. To forgive...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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Do you view your abuser(s) as evil or sick?
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I suppose it depends on your definition of forgiveness. I can't absolve them of their actions any more than I can be absolved, but I can...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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Do you view your abuser(s) as evil or sick?
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I think it's important for us to also consider that we live in a society where, at least on the surface, we are able to make choices and...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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Is my PTSD therapist gas-lighting me into thinking I now have a personality disorder?
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Personality disorders, especially the cluster B axis, are the most stigmatized diagnoses in the DSM. The idea that a therapist who is...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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QuirkyTofurkey's post
in the thread
Is my PTSD therapist gas-lighting me into thinking I now have a personality disorder?
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Thanks for explaining this. I feel like I'm being treated as someone who is "simply reluctant to admit" that I have a personality /...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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Do you view your abuser(s) as evil or sick?
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The more I understand neurobiology, the more deterministic I become. If you accept the premise that people don't choose to be born, nor...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
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Is my PTSD therapist gas-lighting me into thinking I now have a personality disorder?
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If you raise your hand and contradict many of these clinicians, they will take it personally and assign you a label as a "combative...
Jan 25, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
Freddyt's post
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DAE experience "annihilation/catastrophe anxiety"?
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Like
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I find that this associates with my anxiety level and that it is far more likely to happen when I am really really stressed and...
Jan 24, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
arfie's post
in the thread
DAE experience "annihilation/catastrophe anxiety"?
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Love
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sounds like what we call, "hypervigilance" inside my own therapy program. with hypervigilance, the first panic attack generates a burst...
Jan 21, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
Friday's post
in the thread
DAE experience "annihilation/catastrophe anxiety"?
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Love
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I keep meaning to hit this, and keep not being able to for misc reasons. So as I’m catching up on threads I’ve marked to come back to...
Jan 21, 2023
Weemie
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Meltdowns. Ante up!
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This is what I learned from residential treatment as well. Distress tolerance skills have been a life-saver for me and my relationships...
Jan 8, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
Freida's post
in the thread
Meltdowns. Ante up!
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Like
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Car keys here I come!!!! Yep - even after all the years of therapy it's my go to when there's a total meldown I just can't get it thru...
Jan 8, 2023
Weemie
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gealach's post
in the thread
Meltdowns. Ante up!
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Grocery shopping with mom this week, and the cart was filled to the brim, literally to the brim. No, we're not putting one more thing in...
Jan 8, 2023
Weemie
replied to the thread
Meltdowns. Ante up!
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This is the rousing anthem of PTSD I fear, heh.
Jan 8, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
Friday's post
in the thread
Meltdowns. Ante up!
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Haha
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I completely lost my mind, yesterday. Just one too many things. At exactly the wrong moment. Tick. Tick. BOOM. The most ridiculous...
Jan 8, 2023
Weemie
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Xanax and other benzos… question
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The real issue with benzos and alcohol is cross-tolerance and risk of seizure, in my experience. According to this study, the rate of...
Jan 8, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
Movingforward10's post
in the thread
How would you parent yourself, if you were the parent of a child like you?
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Love
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For me, it would be asking questions. And highlighting what I was doing. I.e asking me about why I was hiding rotting food. Asking me...
Jan 4, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
PerfectEmpire's post
in the thread
How would you parent yourself, if you were the parent of a child like you?
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Love
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"What were you like as a kid, and how would you reflect on a child who was brought into your care (not even that you were necessarily...
Jan 4, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
Loveann's post
in the thread
How would you parent yourself, if you were the parent of a child like you?
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Love
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That is great you were able to help them even with you struggling with your own things as well. I feel some times we who suffer with...
Jan 4, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
Larrikin's post
in the thread
How would you parent yourself, if you were the parent of a child like you?
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Like
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We know much more than our parents did and have far greater services, medications and general help. The cycle of abuse is a practice of...
Jan 4, 2023
Weemie
reacted to
CRisky's post
in the thread
How would you parent yourself, if you were the parent of a child like you?
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Like
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Likewise. So disinterested in my fellow male-type peers in schools. Parents expected strict behavior and emotional fury from Dad...
Jan 4, 2023
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