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Relationship My boyfriend disappeared

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Kitty.A

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So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and been friends for a about two year before hand, he’s a veteran that’s served in Iraq and and has pretty back anxiety, depression and PTDS. Things have been been amazing between us however he disappeared on me the last thing he said to me was “ goodnight I love you” on Tuesday night and now it’s Saturday and I haven’t heard a peep from him he’s actually blocked me. But he hasn’t just blocked me he blocked his best friends too. We’ve never had any issues in the relationship and we have very open communication which is why I’m so surprised cause he normally just tells me when he’s struggling but this time he just dropped off the face of the Earth and no one can reach him. Could this be his PTSD?
 
No one’s heard from him, he works for himself so no job to contact. A week is so long
In another thread, I got some great advice about how, just because shitty behavior may have it's roots in PTSD, it doesn't mean it isn't shitty behavior. And that it's really ok to be angry at them.

I know you're worried above all else. But when he shows he's face again, I'll bet that worry turns instantly into anger (if it isn't already).

I'd be so so pissed at him right now. This isn't right.

I'm so sorry.
 
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