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Pass on the Blame

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FreeSoul

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One of the mistreatments by my family includes blaming me for their mistakes and failures.
This terrified me and made me anxious everytime another person made a mistake or failed in something because I felt I could be targeted and blamed.
Some examples include:
My father put me at the front to take the blame when his client was upset with the product his company sold and I had absolutely nothing to do with it.
My brother passed a customer onto me after he could not deliver the order on time; an order he took and had nothing to do with me.
Another brother tried to pass on the blame for a virus on the office computer. This one was a discreet, as he didn't name me or passed onto me directly.
They did it so smoothly, it seemed like they were geniuses in passing on the blame for their failures and mistakes.
This was often a way of living in my house.
My father or brothers forget where they kept important documents, cash, keys, etc., the weakest person in the house gets blamed for their forgetfulness.
One of my brothers and I were often the targets.
 
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