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I read some people have had to leave the state or refinance homes in order to pay back... people's lives are being completely rearranged and destroyed because of this.

just signed it! it's crap

I don't think love itself is a trigger, I think it's what comes with love might be triggers. Affection, sexuality, responsibility for how you treat someone, being afraid of being hurt, living with someone, sharing thoughts or getting close to someone can all be triggers.

I am so sorry you had to endure this. I know everyone's abuse is different and sometimes a word, a smell, a thought can bring up so many ugly feelings of shame and guilt. But it isn't us who need to feel shame or gross.... I cringe when older men look at me or hug me. I almost want to cry...

I'm pretty sure i'm becoming that. I walk on eggshells all day long and in his eyes i say the wrong things constantly, Everything I do for him is out of fear of making him mad or losing him. At some point I have lost myself, through counseling and church I'm trying to find myself again, and...

Oh my goodness, thank you. That actually helps, I have a hard time applying that to myself The part about not being responsible for their recovery. I want to be the best I can be for my husband but I don't think that will have any effect on his actions. Thank you so much for your support

I think being the victim of the cheater with ptsd, we try to find a reason as to why they no longer want us. Is it cause of the ptsd? Is it me? I am currentky dealing with a situation like this but my husband has apologized and is in some ways trying to make amends... but he's also falling into...