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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    I agree with that. I feel that, I chose to be alone many times and it was always the good option. I think now that the good part in my relationship is that there is a lot of freedom, no calls where I am or who I'm with. I think I got a little stuck when I was alone and thinking about him...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    welcome to the party:)) good to know, I thought about feeling nothing, in the end I realize that I can too cut people off with my head. Only it's the first time in this position with a lot of feelings and I was so curious how it feels for him, but I guess is like you said. As he also told me...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    I am glad that I found this forum, I feel that I learned something so important, and thank you for this. I see the other perspective that I couldn't see till today. So I'll give more and more space, if this is the only solution. It's sad that I can't help, you know I am feeling so sad that I...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    I will start with this because you made me smile. Till today I almost thought I am crazy to think like this when anyone is giving up so easy. So I will do this with all my heart/ They loved you as you are so you are a good one, no matter how you see yourself. And speaking with you I remembered...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    I want to stay of course, I didn't knew about this till last month so that's why I didn't knew how to behave. when he is in his good mood everything is perfect and our bound is so strong, we are like mirrors so maybe if it wasn't compatibility it was much easier, but ... anyway thank you I...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    yes and what is harder is to let go the love of your life...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    yes! this explain a lot. If I have a toe broken I will not push someone away. I will want for someone to be there for me. But I understand. Thank you!
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    oh, I do believe in fairy tales :) and I do believe in love and magic. So I only have my believe now and hope that he will change his mind :(
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    I don't want to fix, I want to make his life easier, doing things to make him laugh or smile. I want to know that he wouldn't give up on his feeling and he understand that this is love, because he don't believe. But I feel that he want to believe. Thank you!
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    I wish that I can have the power to show him that love is so strong and worthy and magic. It has to be easier is not fair after all everyone suffered there must be something to heal everybody, there should be a easier life, can't imagine how it is and if I had a power to heal this then I will...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    hey, someone told me about this, I read about it a little and refused to believe it. But now I realize that yes, the description is so similar. But what to do know? thatnk you very much!
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    I will do that. I didn't said that to him, only I see him how his behave is, which was to hard to handle in the beginning, also first time when it was so upside down, like everyday coming home and thanked me for cooking, for everything I do for him, and one night he told me that he wants me to...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    So that's why in the last 3 weeks I' ve stopped the roller coaster, if he is in good mood then we enjoy the time, if he is not in good mood i am watching a movie, or working, or I go out. My focus is not on him anymore, I gave him space, but I am here, and I see him that he wants to come close...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    Ah, I understand him more now after your answer. I mean that at the first problem you are out from the relationship and you act like it doesn't matter to you, like the person who yesterday was the love of your life, today is a stranger. I don't know, for me stability and constancy in the...
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    Relationship boyfriend with ptsd simptoms

    it's so f*cked up, this was the first thing he told me last year that he is f*cked up and he need me to make his life better. I am thinking if I was in his place I definitely felt lucky to have someone staying despite my bad mood. I still have energy to be there for him. It's hard and I know I...
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    Relationship Q For Sufferers : How someone with ptsd feels when they push away the person they love most?

    the hardest period after almost a year of relationship. There were signs of hot and cold from the first day. After the first few weeks, he distanced himself and told his friends that he didn't want to hear from me anymore, only that I told him that I wanted to spend time with him. After 3 days...
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    Relationship boyfriend with ptsd simptoms

    he is participating but from time to time :( but you are right
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    Relationship boyfriend with ptsd simptoms

    no, he only told me he had trauma form his childhood and also from his last relationship, where he wasn't treated to kind. so he is very sensitive now, I told him is not fair to put his baggage on me. I think i made his life better, he told me he can t remember when he was so happy, and that...
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    Relationship boyfriend with ptsd simptoms

    We are together for almost 1 year, and it was a really roller coster, it was love at first sight for both, we broke up for our relationship and after some time we started daiting. He was hot and cold from the very first time, but i didnt saw that this were signs. He broke up in the first month...
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