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  1. J

    Relationship Fearful avoidant w cptsd help

    Thanks Anthony. That’s helpful. Maybe someday when his cup lowers and he’s taking better care of himself he will return. I do want what’s best for him and don’t want to cause him anymore of that kinda stress. Hard to know you’re causing it when one can’t communicate or tell you specfically what...
  2. J

    Relationship Fearful avoidant w cptsd help

    I’m not asking if I should move on. I’m asking if people w cptsd do so with these kinds of sudden erratic behaviors. Do they cut and run or do they see with time that perhaps what they did was a mistake (assuming he thought it was).
  3. J

    Relationship Fearful avoidant w cptsd help

    Thank you. Not exactly waiting for his return. I know I need to move on. If I ever did hear from him I suspect it would be months and surely I’d have moved on fully and won’t be here looking for answers or hope, sadly. But I do Just wonder if people who split you (as this feels like splitting...
  4. J

    Relationship Fearful avoidant w cptsd help

    I do appreciate you response. I suppose I’m just disappointed that I have no answers. No insight. I don’t understand where you say I have trouble separating my pain from his. But you’re right. He definitely became a distraction from myself in the last month of dating.
  5. J

    Relationship Fearful avoidant w cptsd help

    Thank you. You are correct. I just think when someone is triggered they don’t always say things they mean and the sudden demonization from being caring towards me minutes before explains that. He may have been my friend but his cptsd triggered his flight and freeze and he has to tend to his own...
  6. J

    Relationship Fearful avoidant w cptsd help

    Absolutely Anthony and I respect and hear you. I’m no stalker but I do take credit for violating his boundaries of no contact. You’re right there. I sent emails however. But he lives 2 miles from me and I don’t go anywhere near him. I don’t haunt his haunts. And I don’t try. I’ve been going to a...
  7. J

    Relationship Fearful avoidant w cptsd help

    Of course Anthony. Thank u. I hear that and respect that. But am confused how someone can care about you so much and then suddenly want nothing to do w me ever again filled w vitriol and rage for no concreTe reason. Just looking for answers and compassion and kindness towards my immense...
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