We're separated now. After I found out that he did it to someone I care about along with his response. I cut him off.
I met my rapist through a foster kid (Well call him Bob) I had dated in 2016, who was my rapist's nephew. I was a child who had come from a broken home. So and even after Bob...
I know you feel like you could have said no, but you can also say no when someone holds you down. That doesn't mean they'll stop and that doesn't diminish the fear that saying no won't make it escalate to a more violent approach from the attacker. I feel like coercion is a very ignored form of...
So, I was a victim of acquaintance rape. He would do this by coercion, guilt tripping, indirectly mentioning suicide, and being very persistent. This happened multiple times over the past few years. The coping skill I went with was the toxic self-blame. It felt like I had a lot more control over...
I want to have a discussion on sexual coercion. Specifically, regarding coercion from acquaintances. I want others to share their experiences or give examples of what sexual coercion is. This is a topic that is really bothering me recently. I have been subjected to it in the past few years and I...
Regarding that first paragraph, in retrospect, I agree. Just about every time we hung out, he would try something or at least SAY something. I'll be honest, behavior like this was normalized for me. I just feel like shit for continuing to hang out with him once it had already happened once. I...
Note: These "family members" are people who I am not related to by blood or law. They are people who took me in and groomed me when I was 16 after dating their son
So,
When I was 16 I met my chosen mother and father after dating their foster son. They took me in as their own because I was...