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  1. anthony

    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    Currently Xenforo is in final release versions, nearly ready for stable release. This means that I expect to have a final version rolled out here in the next month or two. These final release versions are purely fixing the very minor and nit picky aspects before being considered stable.
  2. anthony

    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    Further Firewall Tweaks Anyone on in the last few days would see the online numbers have spiked again. This is some of the issue I have talked about previously, being that it tends to be more useless traffic than legitimate people. Changing all the firewall setup recently, I've had to wait to...
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    Sufferer Headlocked - Abused By Parents, 23 & Struggling To Know My Purpose In Life

    A very normal feeling. Some go their entire life without really knowing the answer. I like to encourage people to explore life as much as possible, take risks, and find what you love to do and where you fit. Getting philosophical, one could argue that even being homeless is a purpose, as it may...
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    reddit

    Reddit is like a forum. Each reddit is a forum topic, some have sub-reddits (sub-forums), and each one has discussions (threads) within it. Reddit is simply more broad, and its biggest problem is trolls. No different from Twitter in that aspect. I tried reddit many times, and every time I ended...
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    Helped my girlfriend leave her abusive ex and all I got was this lousy ptsd

    I have to say... I'm not sure this relationship all sounds right to me. He abuses her - she leaves him and you help - he is threatening your life - you both have to hide in random locations from him - you have rented her a house having escaped the abuse, but now he is there most days. I think...
  6. anthony

    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    No... nothing will change for everything you see right now. All content remains as is.
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    Helped my girlfriend leave her abusive ex and all I got was this lousy ptsd

    Sorry to hear that. How did that sit with you? All normal. How old are you? If you don't mind me asking. Your response is normal. It is the minority who would act, or who could act, within the bounds of their ability under such circumstances.
  8. anthony

    Helped my girlfriend leave her abusive ex and all I got was this lousy ptsd

    Are you saying you got PTSD from helping your girlfriend leave her ex? If so, can you please explain why it was that traumatic for you?
  9. anthony

    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    Smilies The old smilies have been removed, and our system currently is using the third party emoji support implemented at the last upgrade. This will also be removed for the default new Xenforo emoji system, which is far superior in every way, will work similar to your phone, in that it will...
  10. anthony

    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    Archive Changes I am moving relevant content into appropriate forums to remove / reduce the archive from public / member accessibility. Public content will go into public forums, member only to member (if available or delete) and private to private (if available or delete). It is content no...
  11. anthony

    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    Bookmarks The new software has a bookmarks system now as default, thus our third party system will be removed. If you want to save any links to bookmark in the new system, post them in your diary or profile until the new system rolls out, where you can just bookmark them again. I do not...
  12. anthony

    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    Firewall Changes Part of my process with this upgrade, is to remove as many third party aspects and non-essentials as possible, including staff additions that help us manage the site and the noise that occurs from just being online. As such, I have made some rather harsh changes to the DNS...
  13. anthony

    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    Looking into this, I have decided to build from the server up again, as the changes are worth it, along with some other goodies I can now add as a result of the latest softwares. Upgrading the existing server... I would spend more time trying to fix issues than I would just building it new...
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    The Next Upgrade 20 / 21

    In Oct 19 I said I'm happy with the setup and there was no need to upgrade for a couple of years, as our current site version was upgraded in Aug 18. Sticking to that, Xenforo software is now making strides in its current beta version towards some exceptional usability upgrades, features and...
  15. anthony

    News Worldwide impact of the novel coronavirus (covid-19)

    Stick to Covid please, and do not derail this thread with protest or political rhetoric.
  16. anthony

    The ptsd cup explanation

    Size of the cup is technically irrelevant, as the cups content is what changes, not the cup itself. You could simply argue the opposite here, in that if you increased the cup size, does its contents increase proportionally? Or has the cup remained the same, and its the contents that lessened...
  17. anthony

    The ptsd cup explanation

    It can, but usually before. Emotional numbing is more a state, or precursor to explosion.
  18. anthony

    Belief systems

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    Tips to make your spouse feel loved

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  20. anthony

    Misdiagnosis

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  21. anthony

    Did you choose a specific breed of dog?

    Roomba don't actually do a great job. We have one. Yes... they do vacuum stuff up, however, they are noisy, they do a less than adequate overall job, and they still do stupid shit, even with all the great technology in them. Bagless vacuums are also not recommended for pet hair. It clogs them up...
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    Did you choose a specific breed of dog?

    Absolutely chose a specific dog breed. Why? Many people get a dog without much knowledge of dogs, or that breed. This is how a majority of dogs end up abandoned. Owning a dog is literally like having a baby then infant for 15 or so years. Animals, beyond their birth years, are exactly like...
  23. anthony

    Did you choose a specific breed of dog?

    Reminding myself to answer this later when home.
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