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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    Hi All, I appreciate all the perspectives going on here. Yes, @Sideways I have used different words to reference the fights/freakouts. Any of them lasting more than 4 hours (or 1 hour for that matter) involved getting to a point where I've felt so attacked that I either freeze outright or try...
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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    Thank you. I keep catching myself, thinking am I really just blowing my own insecurities and difficulties with boundaries out of proportion. To actually think she's this controlling, and as I believe, in total denial of it - unable to see it. It's almost fantasy to me. She won't listen to me...
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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    No she doesn't but notifications show on my phone homescreen which she can see. Yes I did uncheck all those on the account details, I guess I didn't wait long enough, seems to have kicked in now. Thanks. Thanks everyone. I'm still quite confused, this is likely not expressly C/PTSD. I will...
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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    Thank you! Also, I've switched off all my notifications for my account but I'm still getting emails, and that could be dangerous for me. Can anyone assist?
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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    Sorry for the disappearing act. Things have been complicated here, we were forced to put our dog down. This lead to more extreme behaviour, and more inability on my part to cope and deal with this. I had planned to address things before our dog problems, now I've had to back away. I'm still...
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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    I want to address some of the specific questions some of you have put forward, even some of the rhetorical ones, I just won't have that kind of time today, but I wanted to let you know I am appreciating this and will post when I can.
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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    Thanks everyone. I definitely hear what you all are saying. Yes, boundaries, and if not for me, then at least for my daughter's sake. I have had counseling off and on, I will seek it out again with a boundary focus.
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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    Thank you Sweetpea76 for your bluntness, I have wondered about whether the word abuse applied, but psychological abuse is very nebulous to define, especially if you're the one in it. Strangely enough, later this morning my wife came to me wondering about the possibility of having to find some...
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    Relationship need perspective/reality check in C/PTSD marriage

    Hi All, first post, found this place via Google. My wife (self-diagnosed C/PTSD sufferer) and I have been friends for just over 20 years. We were both in previous marriages in other countries before getting/living together 5 years ago (married 1.5yrs ago). Her traumas are extensive and from...
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