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    Toxic family.

    I really am not sure what I am asking for. I would like everyone to just get along. Life is way too short to get all pissed off every time some says something you don't like, and its really tiring.
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    Toxic family.

    Moving, I know I have faults and have worked on them over the years. My wife helps me all the time. I used to be extremely abrasive. She would say its not so much your point its how you put it out there or present it, it makes people want to disagree with you even if they do agree with you. I...
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    Toxic family.

    No JWs do not feel family is forever. I have seen talks given at the regional assemblies where the speaker said that there were a lot of JWs who did not want to cut off family who are against if not baptized or DFed from the cult. He had a bag and he reached in and pulled out a skull and said if...
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    Toxic family.

    I am not sure what is going on, I did not reset anything But now it seems to hold my spacing. Movingforward, yes it does bother me. I have always felt why we can not just get along. I know I have very strong opinions and can come across strong, but its not like my brothers have not known...
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    Toxic family.

    I do type in paragraphs but when I post it goes to a block. Doing a test now.
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    Toxic family.

    It took me many years of work to get to a point where I am sure the cult is a scam. There was for several years but what if they are right in the back of my mind. Now its Oh hell how on earth did I stay in so long.
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    Toxic family.

    Being born in a cult is much different than being recruited as an adult into a cult. Children are programed to think mom and dad are right and have our best interest at heart. Its IMO much more difficult to seperate from a cult born into one than recruited in. That said I am sure there are...
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    Toxic family.

    Unless one has been in a cult they don't know anything about it. Its like watching a documentary on war and having been at the front in it .
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    Toxic family.

    So my brother with the wife who cheated on him did go to therapy. He said that the tharipist sat up when he said he was raised a JW. She said do you understand how manipulative that group is and that its a high control group and that it is a cult. He said that he had looked into it and it was...
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    Toxic family.

    Gun control was used to make a point. I don't have contact with my brother and sister in law that cheated on him. Have not for over two years, my youngest brother is the one who will stop talking to me if I say anything he does not like. The other brother likes to get in the middle and run to me...
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    Toxic family.

    Sorry I don't go for mama sat me backwards on the toilet seat or someone else and its not their fault. I am an own your own shit person. I have a million flaws. But I am not going to look for the positive to give my sister in law a pass or an excuse for her actions. She did it she lives it and...
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    Toxic family.

    I will not change my opinion on my sister in law. Its one of the most disgusting things I can think of to do that to someone. But as I said I don't talk to that brother any more so its not an issue for me, bit my opinion is the same, she is a disgusting whore. What other words are there for it...
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    Toxic family.

    My youngest brothers wife being 475 pounds does not affect me other than I can tell he is miserable in his life. I never said anything to him about it. But I can see that he is miserable in his life. He was told by his Dr. that he needed to dump sugar and start to eat better. He lives on...
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    Toxic family.

    Big foot, I have a tendency to be or see the negative side of life. I am not an optomist that is for sure. But i feel I live in the real world. Things are what they are and don't look at things as it will all turn out for the best. Most times in life it does not. My father did not ever believe...
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    Toxic family.

    Hi Survivor. CRNA is Certified Registered Nurse Anesthetists. So he is not a Dr but he runs the anesthesia room along with other CRNAs. There is a Dr who over sees the CRNAs but its like being a Nurse practitioner. He makes around 175k a year although that is not Warren Buffet teritiory he...
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    Toxic family.

    I have three brothers and we were all brought up in a very toxic home. My father was mentally and physically abusive. Now that he is dead, my brothers are all toxic or at least I think they are I am not an expert in psychology. My one brother has been diagnosed as bipolar. He is on meds and a...
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