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    Death Hometown Hero passed away

    If anyone has seen the news we lost our Hometown Hero here in the Houston, Texas area. She was our 7 year old Angel who had terminal cancer. She became an official police officer in the neighboring town which was her dream. For the last year or so our whole community has watched her journey and...
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    Obsession with the Ex

    Sorry for the typos. Haven't been on here in a while. Back to my old ways and here I am again visiting this forum.
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    Obsession with the Ex

    I went to counseling 2 years ago and was told I have OCD. So not officially diagnosed in my opinion. But I have constant thoughts about th I was told in counseling 2 years ago. As far as why I'm not sure and it's something I really need to focus and work through. I also have abandonment issues...
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    Obsession with the Ex

    Yeah with his ex.
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    Obsession with the Ex

    I'm so glad I found this post. I'm going through the same thing right now.
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    Relationship Combat vet running away again

    Well here's an update so to speak. I spoke to him yesterday on text. It had been a few days without talking and I saw that he had visited out of state for a week. I'm glad he got out and had some stress relief. I noticed that an ex from 10 years ago lives in the same area where he visited. I...
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    Paroxetine

    I just started 10 mg today. Dr wants me to start low dose for now and see where we are in 2 weeks.
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    Relationship Praise and self worth

    Thinking back about my relationship with my combat vet ex and how he really liked praise and compliments. I understand we all like compliments and praise. I love how my vet used to always compliment me and make feel beautiful. Now im just happy he still communicates with me. I noticed...
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    Relationship Do yall still keep in touch?

    "On his terms" seems to be a reoccuring theme with us. I text something to start a convo. Ehh hes not so into it. But lately if it's his interest and no emotional attachment to the convo he's all about it. So do you think its more letting him come to me for convo in text first?! Sometimes Im...
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    Relationship Do yall still keep in touch?

    @headshrinker89 love your input! I actually have a 6 and 7 year old so makes a lot of sense as well as with my vet. Ive told him before hes my man child and I will take care of him. I actually liked spoiling him and he told me no one ever had so I know he enjoys it too. We're still keeping in...
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    Sleep paralysis

    Ugh they're so horrible. Havent had one in a while and just woke up from one. Worst feeling in the world because I already sleep with 2 blankets wrapped tight around me.
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    Relationship Do yall still keep in touch?

    So do they do this in all relationships or just the ones they really love and care for?
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    Relationship Do yall still keep in touch?

    I haven't text or heard from him since Wednesday. Trying my hardest to keep busy and maybe give him a few more days. Part of me thinks he has someone new, the other part maybe he's still battling demons. Trying to keep busy and work on me. I'm not sure on how to approach this with the no...
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    How many have/had a mentally ill parent growing up?

    I grew up with a beligerent alcoholic father who was bipolar manic depressant. The only childhood memories I can think of are him pouting in a recliner or coming home beligerent drunk tearing up the house. He finally sobered up after my 4 year old sister died. Funny how now he's this AA sponsor...
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    Relationship Do yall still keep in touch?

    @headshrinker89 your post totally makes perfect sense. We actually just talked a little bit on text. Even though it was just bs, its good to still talk. Maybe every few days I should just catch up with him and not everyday and just keep it friendly and funny.
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    Relationship Do yall still keep in touch?

    To add I guess he does want to move off away from his family. Since he had moved back home when we broke up in Nov he never got his own place. He has stayed with a brother and other family.Now they get on his nerves and he wants privacy so he says moving should help and he wanted me to know. His...
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    Relationship Do yall still keep in touch?

    Yes my combat vet with untreated PTSD. Im very confused with him. We dont fight, or argue, we actually get a long really well. But since getting back together at Christmas up until SuperBowl life was awesome. Now he seems flat and some days hes friendly.He says hedoesnt feel normal around family...
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    Relationship Do yall still keep in touch?

    Me and @Freida kind of talked about this on a post yesterday and it got me to thinking. If you and your sufferer broke up do yall still keep in touch? Are yall still friends or do yall keep getting back together? Weve broken up before, got back together.Now Ive decided to step back and not...
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    Relationship Moving on

    @Freida That makes sense what you said. Im still very in love and want to be with him. When we broke up last time i went on one date. Didnt date anyone, talk to anyone, was very loyal. So as soon as we met up at Christmas and got back together he was asking me how many dates I went on. I...
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    Relationship Emotional numbing/flatness

    @Freida ill send him a text saying that and see how it goes. He was adamant about me not coming up so I wouldn't get. I kind of think maybe depression has him not wanting to be around anyone. He told me Friday night he hasn't been happy in over a month. He's still wanting to move to be happy in...
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    Relationship Emotional numbing/flatness

    I think hes battling depression as well and Im not sure how to respond. Ive decided to take my feelings out of the equation with him and not obsess over our relationship anymore. I still want to be there for him but not sure what to do.
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    Relationship Emotional numbing/flatness

    @Jess p i didnt go see him. I tried to for a few days this week but kept being told he had food poisoning. Maybe he did, maybe he didnt. We talked Friday night some on text and he seemed agitated at times. Still thinks he needs to move away from his family so he can be happy. I didnt hear from...
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    Relationship Moving on

    @Rugby02 Oh wow I'm a police officer too. Ive never dated outside law enforcement or military because I dont trust anyone. And I feel they dont understand me and my lifestyle. Lol. You would think I would be stronger emotionally, which I am at work but not in relationships. I doubt I would...
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    Relationship Moving on

    So I guess I need to vent here because this seems to be the only place where we all understand and support each other. I've decided I gotta do what's best for me. Even though I know me and my combat vet have been over for a few weeks I still held on. We never officially said hey lets break up...
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    Relationship Question for supporters on space

    Im an only child too. Mine is stressing me out this week to where Im ready to shut down and give myself my own space and not talk to him for a few days. There's only so much I can take this week before I just say screw this and not talk to him. We're long distance, too.
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