I agree I do this, and I want to not. It’s something I talk about in therapy. I just don’t really know how to express my own needs without coming across as pressure. It’s hard enough for me to express my needs in general.
I also feel like I’m just enabling his avoidance.
Thank you! I could be...
Thanks! That is very helpful. He’s also very disorganized, I just feel like he leans more avoidant I guess because I’m more anxious and taking the lead. But the moment that I don’t respond even for a short time (as I always respond) or anything like that, he’ll double/triple text. Many other...
Thanks @joeylittle... sorry about that!
I know re: diagnosing... I could be off... and regardless, I don't want to or would never be like "you have CPTSD/PTSD and you're fearful avoidant." I just want you get the concepts out there somehow.
I'm not sure about psych. I know he didn't tell...
Been reading this forum for a while and it's been very helpful. First time posting.
I've been in an official relationship with my partner for about six months with a period of dating (and ghosting) prior along with a very slow start with months to pick up. It's a long story I won't bore you all...