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    Relationship I (33f) didn't know about my partner's PTSD and triggereed him hard. Can you help me analyze?

    Thank you very much for offering a different perspective, that is, for going through the ramblings on my subconscious thought processes in the original post and for giving it a shot to take them seriously to explore where else the story could lead to then. I really appreciate this (the original...
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    Relationship I (33f) didn't know about my partner's PTSD and triggereed him hard. Can you help me analyze?

    When I wrote that I'm not sure whether it's possible to go back to before I was also talking about it from my perspective for I indeed want to sort things out. Also, it's normal for me to not be in a relationship.
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    Relationship I (33f) didn't know about my partner's PTSD and triggereed him hard. Can you help me analyze?

    Thank you all very much for your comments. Re:"If he had slapped you would you be OK with it?" My internal picture of personal relations to others is based on symmetry, which translates to never expecting others to treat me differently than I do treat them and manifest f.e. in an aversion to...
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    Relationship I (33f) didn't know about my partner's PTSD and triggereed him hard. Can you help me analyze?

    I (33) didn't know about the PTSD from domestic abuse by an ex girlfriend of my boyfriend (39) of 9 months and triggered him badly. We stayed in contact via text so far, with the exception of today, and today of all days he got really bad news from work. Can I check in on him via text...
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