The 28th February 2017 marks 10 years since @anthony and I started dating. We had met each other for the first time a couple of weeks prior to this through our sons. Neither of us was looking for a relationship.
What can I say?! I don't think I would have got to this point if it hadn't been for...
Welcome :)
10 years in and there still are times of beer and PTSD meltdowns but they can get better, much better and less frequent.
Your boyfriend has to want to not rely on those things as much and find better coping mechanisms.... you can only support him if he chooses to change the...
Due to the increased activity in the Supporter forum we have re-opened the Private Supporter Discussion area where you can talk freely, in confidence, without having to post as anonymous and it's hidden from search engines and general members.
Over the weekend I'll look at who I'd like to...
The best demonstration of your love it to respect his space for now and not do what you think makes him feel better. I'm sorry to point out the obvious but you're justify why you should not allow him is 'solitude' to recover. If you go, it will only be worse and you wouldn't be here if you...
I apologise in advance for being brief/blunt as I'm short of time yet I feel you might benefit from the perspective from a long time supporter :)
While you have wonderful intentions, just 'asking' if it's okay to make contact via a text can be overwhelming when a Sufferer is in 'isolation' mode...
It is understandable that during a 'crisis' or a situation which doesn't make sense that one flounders and seeks assistance in clarity.
I've been here coming up to 10 years and I've had to stop reading for the better part as, now for me, it just highlights PTSD and sometimes you need a break...
Exactly.... you can set boundaries that are reasonable and expect them to be respected and adhered to.
The problem I find is that in some subtle way (or greater for some) is that our own neediness/co-dependence (desire to be in a relationship) can thwart our best decision making abilities.