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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    hey Yah I noticed that sometimes he would be like I need to sleep and wnated to get off quick and other times he was in better moods and wanted to chat and use the webcams. What I wonder is why is he talking to everyone, as minimal as he is and even though its short but not writing me a word...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    thank you I appreciate that. I have been spending alot of time with my son and taking care of him and also been going out with old friends from school some weekends to keep busy but he is always on my mind.....I wish not, lol
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    hello I kind of feel like a doormat now that I am being so loving and he has cut communication, yet he reads my mail and responds to others even briefly but then I think he may have goine through something and thinks it is best for me....I dont know. A couple of my friends who have been there...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    hey I agree. Well thus far he has NEVER done anything to hurt me until this whole not talking thing. He has never been that way but I will look out for it you know? I hope it never happens.
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    hi again Ok. Well thank you for the warning. Last time he got back he had begun smoking but he had never gotten into drinking or drugs. I am going to look for these things and pray he pulls through without these things. He told me he changed in his attitude last time but eventually came back to...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    anthony Hey! Yah I know. I have known him forever and he has never been a cheater. He is actually one of the few men I know who is the one who was cheated on alot. Not that he cant change but I dont get that thats what he is about. He is a sgt in charge of his unit. In a war zone in Iraq rt now...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    Thanks Tammy and everyone I appreciate your opinions and all the advice. As I said, I have followed the advice to give him space. I haven't written him in a few days since reading these different views. I am going to try what you all say but its going to be really hard for me. I am not...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    hello wow. 5 years, thats a long time! I just pray to God he comes back to hmself and goes to counseling ect. As I said, last time they said he withdrew but wasn't in a loving relationship like he is now and he was back to himself besides some anxiety and probably dreams here and there, until...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    Hi Anthony Yah I see what you mean. Someone before me had said that before he left when he told me to stick by him if he changes or becomes distant that he may have been thinking "I dont want you but I dont want anyone else to have you" and I was defending him and saying I know he didnt mean it...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    Oh yah, sorry I didnt read the one above the last one. I am not totally naive just scared. I am telling you what I have heard from both you all and from people I know who have been there. And in correction as well, I have been doing so (giving him space). I havent written him in a couple days...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    thanks again I appreciate your thoughts and everyones. I am doing all I can to do what he asked me to do but I am just honestly worried for him there by himself with even just depression and anxiety. I am not for certain he does have PTSD. To be honest I didnt even know what it was. He actually...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    to the last few posts I appreciate all the advice, harsh and not. To defend him, he wasnt saying like I dont want anyone else to have you so stick by me. He was with me after having severe anxieties not just stress but severe break downs, that he wanted to make sure I knew that last time he was...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    Thank you Evie Yes. I appreciate that. Do you mind my asking if you experienced the same things (maybe not exactly but you know) where my BF was one day saying he is finally glad he found the right person and how blessed he is and how much he loves me and wants me to move with him when he comes...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    thank you Ok. Thanks...thats really the problem is he isnt speaking and its been 6 weeks. I suppose all I can do is be here and make sure he knows I havent gone anywhere and I love him. I only say he has PTSD because he mentioned to me that he thought he had it before he left when he was...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    Anthony MY BF is overseas for his 2nd time in iraq. He and I were doing so well, having been gone for 6 months when suddenly out of nowhere he said we need a break and I havent spoken in 6 wks. I believe he has PTSD or is getting it as before he left he broke down with me about going back and...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    Reply I am sorry. No I dont mean he will be fine and it will be gone. I have seen it before he even left and he was home. But just that when he was home we got through it together when he would break down and I know if he were here or comes home I can be there for him and help him through, or...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    update thank you all for your replies. I found out from another friend on contract (through the postal service there) who is actually on the way home (he quit) that there has been attacks since the exact day he wrote me, which were not occuring before, so his safety net is gone...I know once he...
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    General Urgent Need of Advice - Boyfriend Has Cut Contact With Me

    I think my boyfriend suffers from PTSD. He mentioned it before his 2nd deployment this past April to Iraq. he had begun to have anxiety breakdowns (just emotional) but I was there and got him through it by holding him. He was terrified to go back. Where he went ended up being very safe as...
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