While I understand how we reach these conclusions, I think that feeling in power and in control is far superior than sex—sex is one of its easiest tools, so it can result in dominance or submission. Huge and hierarchical words. Weird to see too that in group settings, more people expect someone to take the lead. Now I’m more thinking that it’s a matter of energy/agency available for everyone rather than strict hierarchical interactions. Interactions always have power as their implicit, that is true though. Different agents with more or less congruent objectives.It’s all about sex, everything is. Sex and dominance. Sex is dominance or submission. Even in mutualism. Everything is.