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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Mach123" data-source="post: 1718916" data-attributes="member: 19597">I’ve got to talk about dominance and submission.  My therapist can’t handle it.  Nobody can in the only one who dares mention it.  Everyone starts yelling.First off the women object, particularly if its coming out of a mans mouth ie, I’m not going to listen to him say I’m submissive because I give him a bj and cook and clean and do laundry.  So much for anything Lomé a reasonable discussion with her.The men, if they hear this kind of talk, ask you if you wanna have sex or disregard you as silly or hopelessly flawed.  As far  as being a man that is.Now let’s talk.I think I’ll send this to the therapist along with that last little thing I wrote.  I just have to edit out the part about her being a liberal or she’ll start yelling.  That’s because the left can’t call a thing what it is.  Because saying a thing is what it is?  That’s dangerous.  So change the words.So when I say to the therapist, or my wife interestingly enough, that dominance and submission are the issues we are trying to deal with in large part, they start yelling.  That’s because they can’t hear that the woman is submissive.But I saw myself do it yesterday and it’s bad for me because I can’t make anybody do anything by being dominant and I’m a man. You can call it something else if you want.Picture the poor little wimp who can’t go in and ask his boss for a raise, and his wife won’t be happy unless he does.  Lol.  So I, understanding what I am, refuse to do anything like that, if I’m gonna get screwed like that, I’ll do it at home thanks.  At least I’ll was the floors and do some cooking.That brings up another issue though and I’m going to tell them all to go phuck themselves around here too because I’m sick of listening to them.All the free work I do for everyone around here gets me abused so I’m gonna hide awhile and stop doing it all.  This is something I’ve always pictured in my mind but never done.  My daughter is a terrible example of this and I can only explain it as a nightmare.  Nobody would believe it if I tried to explain it without being familiar with trauma except to say she’s a horrible bully.  I’ve never been able to do anything with bullies except leave.I don’t mind leaving.  Everyone abuses me because I ask them to.  You could turn the whole thing around and say people are nice actually, they are doing what’s asked of them.</blockquote>

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