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He’s making me homeless. I’ll be gone on a year.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're facing the threat of homelessness, @Evie loves Sam. That must be an incredibly distressing and overwhelming situation to be in. It's crucial to explore support systems and resources that may be available to help you secure stable housing and safety during this challenging time. Have you looked into local shelters, housing assistance programs, or community organizations that could provide you with temporary housing or resources to prevent homelessness? It's essential to reach out for help and explore all available options to ensure your safety and stability. How are you feeling about the idea of reaching out for support in finding housing solutions during this difficult time?
Domestic abuse charities and other signposting people told me it’s abuse. They pushed me to stand up to him. It made things worse. They makes me fearful. They trigger me. They then just drop you and leave you to deal with it on your own. They have no power. And what they say is abuse is not recognised.
Domestic abuse charities and other signposting people told me it’s abuse. They pushed me to stand up to him. It made things worse. They makes me fearful. They trigger me. They then just drop you and leave you to deal with it on your own. They have no power. And what they say is abuse is not recognised.
I can hear how challenging it has been for you to seek support from domestic abuse charities and have had negative experiences. It's understandable that feeling triggered and unsupported by the very organizations meant to help can be disheartening and create even more fear and stress. It's important for support services to listen to your needs and provide appropriate guidance and resources while respecting your boundaries. Have you considered exploring other resources or organizations that might better fit your needs and offer the support you're looking for? It's essential to find a safe and supportive space where your experiences are validated and where you feel empowered to make choices that are best for you. What kind of support do you feel would be most beneficial for you right now in navigating this challenging situation?
If I ask for help. They will cause more harm. There is no such thing as support.
It sounds like you're feeling incredibly scared and distrustful of seeking help due to concerns about potential harm. It's disheartening to feel like there's no reliable support available when you're in need. Despite the difficulties you've faced, it's crucial to keep looking for options that could provide you with the assistance and safety you deserve. Is there anyone in your life whom you trust and feel comfortable opening up to about your situation? Building a support network, even if it's just one person, can sometimes make a significant difference in navigating challenging circumstances. Remember, your safety and well-being are essential, so it's important to explore all available avenues for assistance. What actions do you feel would best align with your needs right now to ensure your safety and well-being?
They can’t do anything.
It sounds like you're feeling very discouraged by the limitations of the support you've encountered so far. While it's disheartening when it seems like assistance is out of reach, it's important not to lose hope. Every person's situation is unique, and there may still be viable options to explore. Have you considered reaching out to local law enforcement or legal services for guidance on your situation? They may be able to provide you with information on protective measures or resources available to ensure your safety. Additionally, have you thought about creating a safety plan tailored to your specific needs and circumstances to help you navigate this challenging time? Your safety and well-being are a top priority, so it's crucial to explore every possible avenue for support. What steps do you think might be helpful in ensuring your safety and well-being during this difficult period?
They can’t help.
I hear your frustration and feelings of hopelessness regarding the support you've sought out thus far. It's understandable to feel overwhelmed when it seems like available resources aren't providing the assistance you need. During times like these, it's crucial to remind yourself that your safety and well-being are paramount. While the road to finding effective support may be challenging, it's important to keep exploring all possible options. Have you considered speaking with a mental health professional or counselor who specializes in trauma and abuse? They might be able to offer therapeutic strategies and coping mechanisms tailored to your specific situation. It's also advisable to prioritize your self-care and well-being during this trying time. What self-care practices have you found helpful in managing your distress and anxiety? Remember, you don't have to face this alone, and reaching out for support, whether professional or personal, can be a vital step towards healing and recovery.
What does a safety plan have in it?
Creating a safety plan is a proactive way to protect yourself during challenging times and ensure your well-being. Safety plans are personalized and may include various elements based on your individual needs and circumstances. Typically, a safety plan may involve:

1. **Identifying Triggers:** Recognizing the situations, thoughts, or feelings that may lead to distress or feelings of being unsafe.

2. **Coping Strategies:** Developing healthy coping mechanisms to manage overwhelming emotions or triggers. This could include deep breathing exercises, grounding techniques, or engaging in activities that bring you comfort.

3. **Support Network:** Listing individuals you trust and can turn to for help during difficult times. This could include friends, family members, or mental health professionals.

4. **Emergency Contacts:** Including contact information for crisis hotlines, mental health professionals, or local law enforcement in case of an emergency or when you need immediate assistance.

5. **Safe Environment:** Identifying places where you feel safe and secure, whether it's a specific room in your home, a friend's house, or a local safe space.

6. **Restricting Access to Harmful Means:** If applicable, creating a plan to limit access to any potentially harmful objects or substances.

7. **Self-Care Plan:** Outlining self-care practices that help you feel grounded, nurtured, and supported during challenging times. This could include activities like exercise, mindfulness, or creative expression.

8. **Review and Update:** Regularly reviewing and updating your safety plan as needed to ensure it remains relevant and effective in supporting your well-being.

Remember, a safety plan is a tool designed to empower you and provide guidance during moments of distress. Feel free to customize it to suit your specific needs and preferences. What elements do you think would be most beneficial for your safety plan based on your current situation and experiences?
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