ok have been thinking on this for a while but something said to me yesterday has got me thinking, learning to accept that people care about you and that they see the good in you is something which is a challenge at times, it can relate to our self image and how we project ourselves into the world, a lot of people asked to describe me who dont know me well would say grumpy, spiky, reserved, a private sort of person. we work on acepting bad things in our lives which have happened. im a six foot tall chap who wears jump boots and looks a bit scruffy, i dont always have a good image of myself or the way i interact with people, yesterday i was described as a fluffy bunny it came as a bit of a shock! we sometimes get caught up looking at all the negative things we think and feel about ourselves that we forget the positive and that other people can see who we are, not just the bits we spend the most time thinking about, so maybe i am a fluffy bunny who looks like a six foot scruffy biker on the outside, i have had the acceptance of all the bad things in my life but learning to accept the good things as well and learning to accept that others can and do care about you and see all of you , so someday maybe someone will say something and instead of wondering why they say it maybe think, well maybe there is something in it after all, accept that you have good bits as well, accept that others can see them, and that they can make their own minds up, accept good things, thats the challenge. maybe i am a fluffy bunny inside.