He came back after 12 months in Iraq in September 2004. We've been together since 7/05. Up and down. Dealing with Iraq, the death of his grandmother in Oct/05, the tragic unexpected death of my 5 year old in Nov/05, dealing with the physical injuries and lifestyle changes he's sustained, and the stress of VA appointments and such. I need help in supporting him. We are both in our own counseling. I guess what I'm looking for is....how do I help him? How do I recognize when he's headed down the bumpy road, how do I keep him from falling? We are in Atlanta, GA but planning to move to Tennessee to be close to his 7 year old son by the end of the year I hope. Can anyone help? I will try to figure this posting out, or email me at jpgpjp2005 at yahoo.com and I know that I will see it. This forum is all new stuff to me. Wow, I'm babbling.....sorry everyone. Good to meet you all.