Mee
MyPTSD Pro
I know we don’t do trigger warnings here but this is touchy for me so I just want to warn others. Also there is some ‘alternative lifestyle’ issue here. I know this is outside some people’s morals and I wholly accept that. Please, can we not bring that in here if it’s at all possible because it’s confusing and I was already told by the police my last two rapes were my fault for not being monogamous besides other things and - I might be persuaded to that but I also think it’s victim blaming in another way. I just want to keep this to the one topic . As I am the main off topic wanderer I know I recognise that might be tricky
I guess a key thing for me is that I think I might be ‘a rapist’ . Everyone supportive to me and even some not disputes this, but by logic of consent, though I accept my consent violation was unwitting I think I took someone’s ability to give informed, freely given consent.
I guess: what makes a consent violation? I’m not talking grade 1 or 2 sexual assault, nothing like. But what is consent?
If anyone can askthis clearer please go ahead
I guess a key thing for me is that I think I might be ‘a rapist’ . Everyone supportive to me and even some not disputes this, but by logic of consent, though I accept my consent violation was unwitting I think I took someone’s ability to give informed, freely given consent.
I guess: what makes a consent violation? I’m not talking grade 1 or 2 sexual assault, nothing like. But what is consent?
If anyone can askthis clearer please go ahead