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My sufferer was sexually abused as a young boy. Some years later he turned around and did something similar to another boy, although I don't know exactly what it was. All I know is his parents found out and immediately put him in therapy. Aside from now being a highly sexual adult who's had many partners, I haven't really seen any massive red flags. There are only two things that were tiny blips on my admittedly somewhat paranoid radar: 1) He has several young nieces, all under the age of 12 whom he loves and adores. I saw what looked like a really brief cloud pass over his face when he looked at the oldest girl's face the other night, almost like he did a super quick double take, but that was it. Then 2) We were watching a movie in which young middle school kids fall in love, and he jokingly said, "That guy's about to get his first boner" and said the girl was "really cute" but in an "awwww" sort of way, if that makes sense. I should also mention he's ALWAYS had a pretty caustic sense of humor that borders on inappropriate (always involving adults though). So I don't know if I'm just feeling on edge with the litany of accusations coming out lately and am connecting dots where there really are none, or if I have valid reason for concern based on the examples I provided combined with his past.