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Message: <blockquote data-quote="joeylittle" data-source="post: 1681543" data-attributes="member: 25135">No, it doesn't sound stupid.  Not at all.  You're afraid, that's a real thing.Exactly - you are responding to something that doesn't have to do with HER - it's got to do with something else, something you can't quite name.If you think about it in that context - does the idea of bringing this up with her get any easier?  (BTW - when I've been dealing with things like this, I know that being able to say something out loud was the most challenging option.  Writing it down and sharing the writing, that was easiest.  Writing down and reading what I wrote, next easiest.)</blockquote>