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Hi I am hoping someone can help me understand and get through this difficult time for me. I was dating a guy who was a marine vet for about 3 months. He was home from school for the summer when I met him. Honestly a GREAT guy. Everything was perfect. From the beginning he kind of warned me there will be times where he has moments that he'll push me away or moments where he'll have "bad weeks". There was one incident where this happened and we were suppose to hang out and he basically told me he was having a bad day and just wanted to hang out with his friends. I didn't understand and I took it personally. We had a text conversation about it throughout the weekend which consisted of maybe 5 texts because he would wait hours inbetween to respond. I started to kind of understand this little episodes and was willing to give him the space he needed. Everything went back to the way it was.
Come 3 weeks ago he had to move back out of state to go to school. He knew come December (after the semester was over) he'd be moving back home because he was happier with friends and family. I knew I'd be waiting for him to come home so that we could be together. I had booked a flight to visit him which today so happens to be my departure date. I got a random out of nowhere text from his a few days ago at 2am saying "I don't think you should come next weekend" and basically went on about how he doesn't trust me. That he thinks I'm out talking to guys and partying too much. That I don't tell him what I'm doing all the time. I was simply trying to give the guy some space... but apparently he decided to read it the wrong way? Everything was completely normal leading up to his move. I've been trying to text him since this happened. Told him I care about him and that I won't "party" and keep it "low key" for him. He just won't respond to me... I had to cancel my flight today and still haven't heard from him. I just don't know what flipped...Will he eventually communicate with me? Has someone been through a similar incident? Any advice would be grateful.
Come 3 weeks ago he had to move back out of state to go to school. He knew come December (after the semester was over) he'd be moving back home because he was happier with friends and family. I knew I'd be waiting for him to come home so that we could be together. I had booked a flight to visit him which today so happens to be my departure date. I got a random out of nowhere text from his a few days ago at 2am saying "I don't think you should come next weekend" and basically went on about how he doesn't trust me. That he thinks I'm out talking to guys and partying too much. That I don't tell him what I'm doing all the time. I was simply trying to give the guy some space... but apparently he decided to read it the wrong way? Everything was completely normal leading up to his move. I've been trying to text him since this happened. Told him I care about him and that I won't "party" and keep it "low key" for him. He just won't respond to me... I had to cancel my flight today and still haven't heard from him. I just don't know what flipped...Will he eventually communicate with me? Has someone been through a similar incident? Any advice would be grateful.