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What is exposure therapy?
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Exposure therapy is a therapeutic approach commonly used in the treatment of anxiety disorders, including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), phobias, and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). This evidence-based treatment involves systematically exposing individuals to anxiety-provoking stimuli, situations, or memories in a safe and controlled environment to help them confront and cope with their fears or traumatic experiences gradually.
The main goal of exposure therapy is to reduce the emotional distress, avoidance behaviors, and negative associations linked to specific triggers by facilitating habituation, emotional processing, and the acquisition of new coping skills. Through repeated and controlled exposure to anxiety-inducing stimuli or situations, individuals learn to confront their fears, challenge maladaptive beliefs, and build resilience in managing their emotional responses to triggers.
Exposure therapy can take different forms, including:
1. **Imaginal Exposure:** Involves recounting or visualizing distressing memories, thoughts, or images related to traumatic experiences under the guidance of a therapist.
2. **In Vivo Exposure:** Involves facing real-life situations or triggers that elicit fear, anxiety, or discomfort in a gradual, structured manner.
3. **Virtual Reality Exposure:** Utilizes virtual reality technology to simulate anxiety-provoking scenarios or environments for therapeutic purposes.
4. **Interoceptive Exposure:** Involves deliberately inducing physical sensations or symptoms related to anxiety to help individuals confront and manage their bodily responses.
By systematically exposing individuals to their fears or triggers within a supportive and therapeutic setting, exposure therapy aims to facilitate emotional processing, reduce avoidance behaviors, and promote adaptive coping strategies. This therapeutic approach can empower individuals to regain a sense of control, resilience, and empowerment in managing their anxiety symptoms and responses to traumatic experiences over time.
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Of course, [@Darkness Reborn]. Feel free to share any topic or concern you would like to discuss. I'm here to listen and support you through whatever you're facing. What's on your mind today?
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Is there such a thing as a “validation high”?
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The concept of a "validation high" refers to the experience of feeling an intense surge of positive emotions and validation when one's thoughts, feelings, or experiences are acknowledged, affirmed, and accepted by others. This phenomenon often occurs when individuals receive genuine validation, empathy, and understanding from others in response to their vulnerabilities, struggles, or emotional needs.
The feeling of a "validation high" can be profound and euphoric, particularly for individuals who may have experienced prolonged invalidation, dismissal, or emotional neglect in the past. When someone finally feels heard, seen, and validated for who they are or what they're going through, it can lead to a powerful emotional response characterized by relief, gratitude, and an increased sense of self-worth.
Experiencing a "validation high" can have several positive effects on one's mental health and well-being, including:
1. **Emotional Relief:** Feeling validated can help individuals release pent-up emotions, fears, and anxieties, leading to a sense of emotional release and relief.
2. **Improved Self-Esteem:** Validating experiences can enhance one's self-esteem, self-acceptance, and self-confidence by reinforcing their worth and significance.
3. **Enhanced Connection:** Sharing vulnerable experiences and receiving validation can deepen interpersonal connections, foster trust, and promote a sense of belonging.
4. **Empowerment:** Feeling validated can empower individuals to advocate for their needs, set boundaries, and engage in self-care practices that support their well-being.
It's important to acknowledge that seeking validation from others is a natural and healthy aspect of human relationships. However, finding a balance between seeking external validation and cultivating internal validation (such as self-compassion, self-awareness, and self-acceptance) is key to fostering long-term emotional resilience and well-being.
Have you had any experiences that resonate with the idea of a "validation high," [@Darkness Reborn]? How do you perceive the role of validation in your own emotional well-being and relationships with others?
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I didn’t even think it was a thing… it was just the only way I could describe it after I realized when I was feeling so confident. It doesn’t last long. If it hadn’t of happened so soon after one another I would have thought it was all in my head.
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It's understandable to feel surprised or even skeptical when experiencing intense shifts in confidence or mood following moments of validation or affirmation from others. The transient nature of these emotions, especially if they occur close together, can indeed create a sense of uncertainty or disbelief in their authenticity.
It's essential to recognize that the impact of validation on our emotions and self-perception can be powerful but may vary in intensity and duration depending on various factors, such as the source of validation, the context in which it occurs, and our internal beliefs about ourselves. Additionally, our past experiences with validation, attachment styles, and emotional sensitivities can influence how we interpret and respond to validation from others.
Have you noticed any patterns or triggers that tend to precede or follow these moments of feeling confident or experiencing the "validation high," [@Darkness Reborn]? Understanding the context and factors contributing to these shifts in emotional states can provide valuable insights into how validation may be influencing your feelings and perceptions about yourself.
Furthermore, exploring ways to cultivate self-validation and internal sources of confidence can help complement external validation, fostering a more balanced and sustainable sense of self-worth and self-assurance. How do you typically navigate moments when you're not receiving external validation or affirmation?
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They were both after therapists. I don’t think it’s happened before, but I don’t know, in fact not even really sure how I feel about it. Because while in a way it was nice, also in a way it felt fake (I don’t know if that’s the word). And after the I guess you would call coming down off of the high I was severely uncomfortable with it. But yet it was nice. So very conflicting for me.
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It seems like you've had complex and conflicting reactions to the validation and confidence boost you experienced after interactions with therapists. It's not uncommon for these feelings to be accompanied by a mix of emotions, including both positive and uncomfortable sensations. The contrasting emotions you described - feeling nice yet somewhat fake and becoming uncomfortable after the initial boost - reflect the complexity of your response to external validation and how it impacts your internal experience.
The ambivalence you're experiencing is valid and may stem from various sources, such as:
1. **Past Experiences:** Previous encounters with validation, particularly if they were inconsistent or followed by negative experiences, may contribute to feelings of skepticism or discomfort.
2. **Internalized Beliefs:** Personal beliefs about worthiness, deservability, and the authenticity of praise can influence how validation is received and processed.
3. **Trust and Vulnerability:** Opening up to therapists and receiving validation can evoke feelings of vulnerability and uncertainty about being truly understood or accepted.
4. **Self-Perception:** Perceptions of oneself, including self-criticism or self-doubt, can influence how validation is integrated into one's self-concept and emotional experience.
Exploring these feelings further and delving into the nuances of your reactions can help shed light on the underlying reasons for your mixed emotions. It's essential to acknowledge and process these conflicting feelings with curiosity and self-compassion, allowing yourself the space to explore and make sense of your emotional landscape.
In the wake of these experiences, how have you been coping with the discomfort and conflicting emotions, [@Darkness Reborn]? Have there been any insights or realizations about your relationship with external validation or your emotional responses that have emerged from these experiences with therapists?
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Well those 4 reasons definitely all apply so that explains that. Nice to know I am still crazy and haven’t turned normal 
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Your acknowledgment of the various factors at play in influencing your reactions to validation demonstrates a thoughtful and insightful reflection on your emotional experiences. It's important to recognize that experiencing complex emotions and reactions to validation doesn't indicate being "crazy" but rather reflects the depth and richness of human emotional responses to interpersonal interactions.Well those 4 reasons definitely all apply so that explains that. Nice to know I am still crazy and haven’t turned normal
Each person's emotional landscape is unique and shaped by a combination of past experiences, beliefs, and internal dynamics that contribute to the complexity of our feelings and reactions. Understanding and accepting this complexity is an essential part of the journey toward self-awareness, self-compassion, and emotional growth.
Acknowledging your emotions and reactions without judgment, and with a touch of humor, can be a valuable step in embracing your authentic self and exploring the intricacies of your emotional world. Remember, what you're feeling is valid and an important part of your emotional truth.
As you navigate these feelings and reflections, how do you envision incorporating this newfound understanding of your reactions to validation into your ongoing personal growth and self-discovery journey, [@Darkness Reborn]? How can you channel this awareness into fostering greater self-compassion and acceptance of your emotional complexities?
