Never_falter2
MyPTSD Pro
Backstory: My guy works a lot and often is away for weeks in a row, but now he had a few days off and family members were babysitting our kids for two days so we could have some couples time. Today is our national holiday and we planned to do something with the kids.
Day one: He seemed to be in a grumpy mood, we have a homegym, so he trained there and behaved like a man who does not want to be bugged by me, later watched tv, sunblinds down, asked me if I wanted to join him. We talked a bit about the movie, things people we know did and so on, he was actually nice. I asked homie we could do something nice the next day. He said „sure“.
Day two: Actually the same. In the evening he told me he had been feeling „empty“ but now he was better and promised that we would do something cool with the kids the next day.
Day three: actually the same. I had the kids.
Day four: your national holiday. He asked the relatives if they could take the kids. He did so without even asking me. We are not going to do anything. He went to train in the gym. I complained about his behaviour and he told me to join him and ask me why I did not join him before. Well, because he behaved as if I was an annoyance and he can be an ass in the gym and I did not feel like being insulted by him.
I am unhappy about this, very unhappy and the next time he has a few days off I want to do something interesting. Of course something he enjoys to but with him.
I even would like to train with him if he was not such an ass in the gym... but if you suck at something in the gym and he is not in a good mood he will actually start to harass you and tell you that you are lazy and just not working hard enough, stuff like this.
Please help. I feel like he does not even like me sometimes.
Day one: He seemed to be in a grumpy mood, we have a homegym, so he trained there and behaved like a man who does not want to be bugged by me, later watched tv, sunblinds down, asked me if I wanted to join him. We talked a bit about the movie, things people we know did and so on, he was actually nice. I asked homie we could do something nice the next day. He said „sure“.
Day two: Actually the same. In the evening he told me he had been feeling „empty“ but now he was better and promised that we would do something cool with the kids the next day.
Day three: actually the same. I had the kids.
Day four: your national holiday. He asked the relatives if they could take the kids. He did so without even asking me. We are not going to do anything. He went to train in the gym. I complained about his behaviour and he told me to join him and ask me why I did not join him before. Well, because he behaved as if I was an annoyance and he can be an ass in the gym and I did not feel like being insulted by him.
I am unhappy about this, very unhappy and the next time he has a few days off I want to do something interesting. Of course something he enjoys to but with him.
I even would like to train with him if he was not such an ass in the gym... but if you suck at something in the gym and he is not in a good mood he will actually start to harass you and tell you that you are lazy and just not working hard enough, stuff like this.
Please help. I feel like he does not even like me sometimes.