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Message: <blockquote data-quote="blackemerald1" data-source="post: 1679323" data-attributes="member: 2627">^Not sure if I understand. Will give it a go. Regulating oneself when there remains an ongoing threat?  You don't want to take action against them, let them know you even worry, where you are or that you expect they will come for you one day when they feel so sh*ty about themselves that they hark backwards in time to the one that got away? Hmm.. Is this even warm?I don't know. I'm living in a similar situation post DV. I talked about this with someone just recently. It had to do with disclosing where I was & how I am now. The risk was too great and I had to decline what would otherwise have been a very normal thing to do. I got tired of waiting for the axe to fall. I tried running away, changing my name, living in strange places. None of it worked. Be super careful, counter-surveillance becomes a way of life?  Apart from acceptance that this is now the way to live. Idk..  :hug:</blockquote>