The wife and I are becoming worried for Evie, some hurts/resentments she is having trouble getting past. Won't mention details here, but there are several hurts. Some to do with the forum, some to do with other areas of her life. However. All seem to revolve around my son's death. Have tried to convince her, it is Brian's death that is the real issue here and these other things are unimportant, quite possibly excuses to not deal with the heart of the matter. She agrees for the most part, tries to work on herself. We have discussed it ad nauseum in family therapy. Still. She keeps slipping back into hurt and depression over minor things. Night before last was wretched for her, worst I've seen her in a long time. This morning I encouraged to come on the forum and post in her diary, as it seems to help her. Well. She came on briefly, saw something she didn't like, promptly left the computer and retreated to her bed. She will not get out of bed now. Cries and wants to sleep. Are we perhaps expecting too much in wanting her to get past some of these issues? Most of them have been going on for 2 months, long enough in my opinion. Frustrated and uncertain what to do next. Jim.