Theasylumsystem
Confident
My girlfriend over time has said some really ableist things to me. And I feel like when I try to explain to her or tell her that I can't do certain things she doesn't care or ignores me.
She doesn't want to learn about our system or learn my preferred name. I just... I don't know. I think she still views me as the same girl she dated in freshman year and that's not me anymore. I came out as trans two years ago. I got diagnosed as a system a year ago. I just... We've been dating for about two months but we've been friends since we were young. I just... agh. Is it worth it to try and change the image of me in her mind?
She doesn't want to learn about our system or learn my preferred name. I just... I don't know. I think she still views me as the same girl she dated in freshman year and that's not me anymore. I came out as trans two years ago. I got diagnosed as a system a year ago. I just... We've been dating for about two months but we've been friends since we were young. I just... agh. Is it worth it to try and change the image of me in her mind?