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I have severe cptsd and have had avoidant attachment (well my younger days) I had disorganized attachment and worked my way up to avoidant and then to secure attachment. I am happily married to a great guy for the past 4.5 yrs. Still in honeymoon!If so, what has helped?
I have severe cptsd and have had avoidant attachment (well my younger days) I had disorganized attachment...
Attachment isn’t a scale where you move through attachment styles. Avoidant attachment isn’t something you move into, each attachment style is a particular way of being in their own right and only about 30% of adults have a secure attachment style.voidant attachment (well my younger days) I had disorganized attachment and worked my way up to avoidant and then to secure attachment.
This is probably going to sound REALLY stupid.and allow others to meet your needs
This is probably going to sound REALLY stupid.
What needs is it that other people can meet? In the ma...
It actually seems beyond "wrong", it seems unsafe. Because what happens when no one's there? You die?It felt very wrong to admit I needed anything at all from people (would that not mean I’m needy, would I be giving my power away).
And, I think I need to know that I actually don't NEED that, wonderful as it sounds, because there has to be an option for living without it. Unconditional love.....I get the idea, but it seems like a myth, and somehow, you have to be able to survive without it, don't you? Because what it it's not there? What if you're not all that lovable, or you're not lucky enough to have run across the right person? What if no one WANTS to care for you and support you?I need to know there are people in my life who love me unconditionally, who have my back and who I allow to care for me and support me.
This is one of those thoughts that can really sink me, if I’m not careful. I agree - there needs to be a way things work without having unconditional love/support coming from somewhere...What if no one WANTS to care for you and support you?