Hello,
I am dating someone who is currently in Timor, luckily I can talk to him regularly. He sounds Ok at times and down at others. Their calls are monitered so it is difficult to know how he feels. I have been with him for two years and am finding being an 'army' partner difficult to say the least. I think it is compounded by the fact that I too have had my own problems. I suffer from anxiety attacks, the result of a past abusive relationship. Having to constantly send him off is....stressful to say the least. Not knowing when or how long....worrying about his health and wellbeing. I have decided to 'post' to find out what to do when he gets back. He too is a fairly anxious person, and even though I understand that part of him, I would like to understand the anxious 'army' part of him too. Would value any insights.
Syd
I am dating someone who is currently in Timor, luckily I can talk to him regularly. He sounds Ok at times and down at others. Their calls are monitered so it is difficult to know how he feels. I have been with him for two years and am finding being an 'army' partner difficult to say the least. I think it is compounded by the fact that I too have had my own problems. I suffer from anxiety attacks, the result of a past abusive relationship. Having to constantly send him off is....stressful to say the least. Not knowing when or how long....worrying about his health and wellbeing. I have decided to 'post' to find out what to do when he gets back. He too is a fairly anxious person, and even though I understand that part of him, I would like to understand the anxious 'army' part of him too. Would value any insights.
Syd