Hi,
I hope I am not double posting but I haven't seen his topic in another thread yet.
To cut a (very) long story short my ex might have ptsd, he certainly seemed to be displaying some of the symptoms. Lately he started keeping me at a distance (no contact, I was to leave him alone while he tried to sort himself out) then he sent me a message announcing it was over. And that was it, total shut down ever since.
It might be a bit late for me now :frown: but I was wondering how everybody else got their loved ones to seek help or at least accept that they stand by their side? I know everybody is different and will react to different things, but reading the posts, it seems that a lot of the ptsd sufferers think they're ruining their other half's life and that they are a burden. How did the "spouses" manage not to be kept at arm's length? Confrontation, patience, respect of their wish for isolation? Mine didn't talk much about his issues, was terribly stubborn, and my attempts to talk things through towards the end were met with anger; I think he felt it like an intrusion. :wall:
I hope I am not double posting but I haven't seen his topic in another thread yet.
To cut a (very) long story short my ex might have ptsd, he certainly seemed to be displaying some of the symptoms. Lately he started keeping me at a distance (no contact, I was to leave him alone while he tried to sort himself out) then he sent me a message announcing it was over. And that was it, total shut down ever since.
It might be a bit late for me now :frown: but I was wondering how everybody else got their loved ones to seek help or at least accept that they stand by their side? I know everybody is different and will react to different things, but reading the posts, it seems that a lot of the ptsd sufferers think they're ruining their other half's life and that they are a burden. How did the "spouses" manage not to be kept at arm's length? Confrontation, patience, respect of their wish for isolation? Mine didn't talk much about his issues, was terribly stubborn, and my attempts to talk things through towards the end were met with anger; I think he felt it like an intrusion. :wall: