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How do I deal with Rageholic sister
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<blockquote data-quote="Friday" data-source="post: 1767674" data-attributes="member: 27208"><p>The exact same way she confronts making you stop fawning.</p><p></p><p>IE? You don’t.</p><p></p><p>She rages.</p><p>You fawn.</p><p></p><p>Those aren’t things OTHER people can change. No matter how much they love them, no matter how much they like them, no matter how important the relationship is to them.</p><p></p><p>It’s very much a “you do you” kind of thing.</p><p></p><p>Which sucks, for true, when you want to reach out and change them. But that’s not how people work.</p><p></p><p>You can have an honest conversation -or 300- about the Rage/Fawn issue, and it may very well help the relationship itself, or not, or make things worse…. but? Neither of you can change the other.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Friday, post: 1767674, member: 27208"] The exact same way she confronts making you stop fawning. IE? You don’t. She rages. You fawn. Those aren’t things OTHER people can change. No matter how much they love them, no matter how much they like them, no matter how important the relationship is to them. It’s very much a “you do you” kind of thing. Which sucks, for true, when you want to reach out and change them. But that’s not how people work. You can have an honest conversation -or 300- about the Rage/Fawn issue, and it may very well help the relationship itself, or not, or make things worse…. but? Neither of you can change the other. [/QUOTE]
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