Heather
MyPTSD Pro
My neighbor that moved in a few weeks ago. Took my spare washing machine and is using it as her own. The landlord said I could have it.
She said he told her she could have it. I asked landlord he said they never discussed washer in the basement.
There was an air conditioner left by previous tenant. Landlord said I could have it. It was heavy and I managed to put in hallway. Then it was missing.
New tenant said I stole it from her. I went into her apartment after she signed lease and took it.
That is NOT true. I took it out way before lease was signed.
Then she comes down screaming through my door saying I'm not allowed to talk to tenant on first floor, that I'm harassing her, its elder abuse and she's gonna call the police on me.
I've tried to change my way I deal with people. I used "I" statements.
Obviously it didn't work. I raised my voice but didn't yell and walked away from her when she started screaming.
When she came to my door my daughter opened it and she began screaming. I heard what was going on, came to door and told her if she has a problem she needs to talk to me and not involve my daughter. That's when she started threatening me about getting arrested. I said goodbye and closed the door.
I felt upset and started crying.
My question is: what would you do in that situation? Help.
She said he told her she could have it. I asked landlord he said they never discussed washer in the basement.
There was an air conditioner left by previous tenant. Landlord said I could have it. It was heavy and I managed to put in hallway. Then it was missing.
New tenant said I stole it from her. I went into her apartment after she signed lease and took it.
That is NOT true. I took it out way before lease was signed.
Then she comes down screaming through my door saying I'm not allowed to talk to tenant on first floor, that I'm harassing her, its elder abuse and she's gonna call the police on me.
I've tried to change my way I deal with people. I used "I" statements.
Obviously it didn't work. I raised my voice but didn't yell and walked away from her when she started screaming.
When she came to my door my daughter opened it and she began screaming. I heard what was going on, came to door and told her if she has a problem she needs to talk to me and not involve my daughter. That's when she started threatening me about getting arrested. I said goodbye and closed the door.
I felt upset and started crying.
My question is: what would you do in that situation? Help.