To: midi
To be perfectly honest if doing all this would have been only up to me I would have probably ended up in a mental institution (for some reason I think that would have helped a lot more in long term) I had my mom next to me, she found some guy from alternative medicine (she believes rather strongly in it) who actually gave some solid advice. He was like a psychiatrist without a license.
Its not about doing it all at once. If you are a solid mess (forgive me for saying that) then making just one change is a big deal. For starters maybe just give up a soda before bed. Live with that for few days, then few weeks and then make the next change.
One thing I forgot: after you get up, go in front of a mirror, brush your hair, look at yourself and say out aloud: I love you.
It´s all about routine.
Wish you the best.
To be perfectly honest if doing all this would have been only up to me I would have probably ended up in a mental institution (for some reason I think that would have helped a lot more in long term) I had my mom next to me, she found some guy from alternative medicine (she believes rather strongly in it) who actually gave some solid advice. He was like a psychiatrist without a license.
Its not about doing it all at once. If you are a solid mess (forgive me for saying that) then making just one change is a big deal. For starters maybe just give up a soda before bed. Live with that for few days, then few weeks and then make the next change.
One thing I forgot: after you get up, go in front of a mirror, brush your hair, look at yourself and say out aloud: I love you.
It´s all about routine.
Wish you the best.