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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Movingforward10" data-source="post: 1752291" data-attributes="member: 49737">You weren't at all dumb by sitting back and saying what you did. You are in therapy and you have the right to say whatever you need to. You should "accidentally get comfortable". It wasn't you that made this interaction not go the way it should. It was your T. If you had hired a decorator and you said you wanted the walls painted blue and they painted them green. Would you be accepting that?It's interesting that we give T's so much more room for error than we do another person whose services we require. I may be getting too passionate about this, but I hope you can see this was not you. You can find a T who responds in the way you need when you express what you need.</blockquote>